ok i dated this guy for about 5 months last year. I broke up with him because I had to get stuff straight with my life. I told him a couple of days ago that I wasn't really over him but I didn't want to get into a relationship. Today he called me and kept begging me to take him back. I kept telling him the reasons why I didn't want to get into a relationship and date again. I told him to give me time to think about it and just let me get my life straight. And then he had to tell me that he doesn't want to feel like he doesn't want to wake up in the morning again. Then he told me he would give me time to get stuff straight and then told me "not to take to long"

I'm so stressed out..I don't want to hurt him but I don't want to really date either..what should I do?

can i have him? he sounds nice.

you sound like a messed up dramatic bitch, stop fucking with the poor boy.

whatever you do don't fuck with him. mainly because karma is an effing bitch and cos he sounds nice. and why'd you tell him that if you didn't want him back? that part i don't understand.

I don't understand this either. Why didn't you just wait until you were ready and then tell him? Telling him you don't want to be with him but you haven't gotten over him but you still don't want to be with him... he must feel like your teasing him. Be careful with how you handle this because you could end up being the one hurt. Just get your shit together then go get him. If he cares for you he'll most likely wait for you

Exactly what everyone else said. Why would you tell you weren't over him if you didn't want him back? How long does it take you to get your shit together? Maybe if told him he could help you, thats what couples do, help eachother. Except for weird ones that beat one another. But thats a whole different thread.