does anyone else get this?

i feel a bit lame posting this here, particularly since there's every likelihood that people i know will read it. however, it's started happening to me on an increasingly frequent basis, and it's getting a bit frustrating.

basically, the last person i slept with was my ex who i was totally in love with and with whom i had the most incredible intimacy with...something i've never had with anyone else before. she ended up leaving me for someone else, which left me in a bit of a mess...it's been 6 months since that happened and i feel like i'm pretty much over it, emotionally speaking...but now i can't seem to reach orgasm without crying immediately afterwards. i haven't felt ready to sleep with anyone since, but i'm a bit scared that if i do then i'll end up crying my eyes out and freaking them out!

it doesn't happen if i stimulate my clit, only if i use my fingers. it used to happen sometimes when i was with her, like if i had a really intense orgasm or if i felt particularly close to her. but now it seems that i can't get my fingers inside without feeling the tears coming immediately.

is this normal or is it some kind of psychosomatic response to the stuff that happened with my ex?

this is just another reason you have to let me take a hammer to that girls face.

never had the pleasure, I'm afraid.

It could just have to do with stress release or pent up / repressed emotions or issues. My good friend is a massage therapist and said this often happens during or at the end of a treatment.

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