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08-14-2007, 09:18 PM
|  | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | | The day has come....I need relationship advice from KR
Ok heres the deal.
Three weeks ago I met a guy and we hung out three days in a row and on the third day we went to our freinds party. He had to leave that night and I asked him to call me when got home because he had some drinks. So when he called me I asked him out and he said yes. He got out of a year and a half long relationship 2 months ago , and it was his first real relationship. He still remains friends with his ex and I dont have a problem when people remain freinds with their ex. At first he was all cutsie liek sending me texts like "good morning :] " and stuff like that. Now hes different. He just asts weird , not mean or anything just odd. His freind and I were talking and she said "I dont think he knows what he wants....i dont know....its just a feeling.....i think he still loves his ex" So I talked to him the next day and he explaned that he doesnt have secound thoughts about us its just weird for him because he just got out of his first real relationship and he wants to take it slow , i told him i understand and have no porblem taking it slow. But now its just weird. Freinds say were still in that awkard hanging otu stage and shit. Hes parents know hes gay and pretty much hate it , he cant have guys sleep over (understandable) and when just a guy comes over thay give him shit about so I havent been over his house much and my mom doesnt know (hes 18 im 17). Example of the weirdness ...we were outside the mall becuase our friend just got off work, he got a prak call and called them back and was like ummm put kyle ( his ex) on the phone he got on and was wtf someone just pranked me from this number (pause) Im at the mall with layne(our friend , i was sitting right next to her) ...(pause) I dont know ill text you later. He left me at the mall with freinds because he was suspossed to go home and get money then he texted me saying he was getting bitched at and I havent heard from him since. I understand taking it slow and everything but ....it would be nice to talk to my boyfriend and not get left out when hes talkling to his ex.  |
08-14-2007, 10:06 PM
|  | I'm the hot one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Dying 100 times
Posts: 6,660
| | *scratches head*
umm..
...
kick him in the cunt...?
edit: wait say THIS to him-
Are you gonna fight for me? die for me, live and breathe for me? Do you care for me? coz if you don't they just LEAAVE!!
(heavy vibrato on the 'leave')
thank me & clarkson later 
Last edited by Ruth Price : 08-14-2007 at 10:10 PM.
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08-14-2007, 11:06 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
Posts: 1,273
| | | Hmmm I think im gonna try to not break into song.
But thanks though , love the av. |
08-15-2007, 03:19 AM
|  | For all the right reasons | | Join Date: Apr 2007
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| | | I'm not sure. I guess ask him if he's ready for this? I know you already kind of did but try to talk to him to see whats going on and if hes ok with everything. Maybe hes just having a hard time because of the reasons you already said. I'm sorry I'm not much help |
08-15-2007, 03:31 AM
|  | Job Hand | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: burbs, UK
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| | | I think the guy is in a real low point in his life and is turning to you for comfort as a mother figure. You are desperately trying to figure the whole situation out but in fact really get more confused the more time goes on.
Take care,
Silvine
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08-15-2007, 04:08 AM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | | I think im just gonna ride it out.
Hes not turning to me , hes turning away.
But I feel better now...friends and Vicodin make the world go round. |
08-15-2007, 03:34 PM
|  | a snib for the nones | | Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: dead end street
Posts: 473
| | listen to your heart, that's what roxette said 
if i was unsure about him or he was being well weird, then i wouldn't get involved. |
08-15-2007, 04:36 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
Posts: 1,273
| | | It thinks things are better know.
Hes really sick and went to the DR yestersay then slept and that why he didnt call. I saw him at work and things were cool.
Im happy. |
08-15-2007, 05:18 PM
|  | A brand new day | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: It can't get worse
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| | | Gut feelings are right.
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Juices like wine, like the blood in the sands. |
08-15-2007, 05:23 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ronette  Gut feelings are right. | Yeah , Im slowly starting to learn to not over think everything and just go with my gut. |
08-15-2007, 08:20 PM
|  | stirred... rarely shaken | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Northwest
Posts: 599
| | | Yes, go with your gut. Gut = animal instincts, designed to protect you from further harm. It's comforting him to have you but he hasn't resolved the thing with his ex yet. Best wishes. |
08-16-2007, 08:05 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | | UPDATE:
Well I made him a get well card when I got bored with my freind and gave it to him at work and hes was oh Ill call you later. Nada. Last night I talked to my best friend and she was like I knew shit was wrong when your having a problem in a relationship , your just about the nicest guy. So I was gonna talk to him and be like well I think your too busy to be in a relationship but freinds would be nice and if something comes up down the road then great. I went on his MySpace about 10 mins ago and found SINGLE aswell to find me completely booted of his tops freinds. It's going down , hes got no balls.
I'm actually glad all that shit is over. |
08-16-2007, 09:04 PM
| | I'm the hot one. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Dying 100 times
Posts: 6,660
| | | jeez what a dickweed.
if they don't meet you halfway, you'll resent them over time anyway. probably better sooner than later.
should have taken my advice in the first place. kelly clarkson is always right. ALWAYS right. fat butch cunt has been dumped by guys thousands of times i imagine, who can blame them. |
08-16-2007, 09:15 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | | You so right Ruth.... |
08-17-2007, 12:24 AM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
Posts: 1,273
| | | HIM (12:13:58 AM): I'm sorry that I didn't say anything to you. I'm an asshole and I'm sorry for that. I've been really stressed and I just can't be with anyone right now because I'm not ready. I'm sorry.
Auto Response from ME(12:13:58 AM): Under and under and under and under and under.
The spell of repetition really is on you.
ME (12:20:05 AM): I asked you about all of that what.... two weeks ago ? You didn't say anything you kept me going and you wasted my time, your right your an asshole. If you didnt end it the way you did I would have had no problem being friends. There is no need to reply to this.
I just got that heap of bullshit .
He signed off after he read my reply. |
08-17-2007, 12:35 AM
|  | heavens to murgatroyd | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hospice for the terminally ill
Posts: 1,718
| | | I love it when people apologize for being an asshole, then offer an explanation for it, as if it makes it OK. You were wise to pass this loser up. Personally, I'd like to shit on him. |
08-17-2007, 12:43 AM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
Posts: 1,273
| | | Why thank you.
It feels so good to just be done with it. It was so draning. |
08-17-2007, 04:41 AM
|  | Favorite Number: forklift | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,073
| | | I think your posts since the starting post have proven what I would have said anyway.
But you are better off without this nonsense anyway. Shit like this sucks and is NO fun to deal with. |
08-17-2007, 05:46 PM
| | My crown is too high | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: On the floor, counting flowers on the wall.
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| | | I know.
Im going to a rave tomarrow with my freind and hes gonna be there
My friend was freinds with him before me but were better freinds now , we were all suspossed to go togther.
I wanna see the look on his face when I walk in. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | 
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