Ok heres the deal.


Three weeks ago I met a guy and we hung out three days in a row and on the third day we went to our freinds party. He had to leave that night and I asked him to call me when got home because he had some drinks. So when he called me I asked him out and he said yes. He got out of a year and a half long relationship 2 months ago , and it was his first real relationship. He still remains friends with his ex and I dont have a problem when people remain freinds with their ex. At first he was all cutsie liek sending me texts like "good morning :] " and stuff like that. Now hes different. He just asts weird , not mean or anything just odd. His freind and I were talking and she said "I dont think he knows what he wants....i dont know....its just a feeling.....i think he still loves his ex" So I talked to him the next day and he explaned that he doesnt have secound thoughts about us its just weird for him because he just got out of his first real relationship and he wants to take it slow , i told him i understand and have no porblem taking it slow. But now its just weird. Freinds say were still in that awkard hanging otu stage and shit. Hes parents know hes gay and pretty much hate it , he cant have guys sleep over (understandable) and when just a guy comes over thay give him shit about so I havent been over his house much and my mom doesnt know (hes 18 im 17). Example of the weirdness ...we were outside the mall becuase our friend just got off work, he got a prak call and called them back and was like ummm put kyle ( his ex) on the phone he got on and was wtf someone just pranked me from this number (pause) Im at the mall with layne(our friend , i was sitting right next to her) ...(pause) I dont know ill text you later. He left me at the mall with freinds because he was suspossed to go home and get money then he texted me saying he was getting bitched at and I havent heard from him since. I understand taking it slow and everything but ....it would be nice to talk to my boyfriend and not get left out when hes talkling to his ex.

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Do you dare ?

*scratches head*

umm..


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kick him in the cunt...?

edit: wait say THIS to him-

Are you gonna fight for me? die for me, live and breathe for me? Do you care for me? coz if you don't they just LEAAVE!!

(heavy vibrato on the 'leave')

thank me & clarkson later

Hmmm I think im gonna try to not break into song.

But thanks though , love the av.

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Do you dare ?

I'm not sure. I guess ask him if he's ready for this? I know you already kind of did but try to talk to him to see whats going on and if hes ok with everything. Maybe hes just having a hard time because of the reasons you already said. I'm sorry I'm not much help

I think the guy is in a real low point in his life and is turning to you for comfort as a mother figure. You are desperately trying to figure the whole situation out but in fact really get more confused the more time goes on.

Take care,

Silvine