Ok, Im New At This Forum Shit. But I Could Really Use Some Advice!!

I Have Been Dating A Man Who Is The Leader Of A Nationaly Touring Band For A Year. 3 Months Ago We Decided To Move In Together. He Has Been On The Road For Almost 2 Months Outta The 3 We've Lived Togeather. Ha!

Now I Have Been In A Relationship With A Band Boy Before, So I Knew Somewhat What To Expect.

Anyways, I Find Myself Getting Annoyed At Him For Not Calling/texting Me Sometimes. I Mean I Know He Is Busy, And I Dont Want To Be The "annoying" G/f. But Damn, It Seems Like The First Of Tour He Was Communicating With Me Frequently, And Now, Not So Much.

I Don't Blow Up His Phone, Check His Myspace, Message His Myspace Or Trig, Talk To His Bandmates, Ask Him Where He's Been... Even Though He Is Known To Be A Little Leadsinging Whoreface, Or Any Of That Shit. I Told Him Before He Left I Know All The Temptions Of The Road, But To Not Let Me Find Out, Or Make It Obvious.
So In My Opinion I Give Him Plenty Of Space And Support. So Am I Crazy To Think That There Is Something Wrong??

I Mentioned It One Time, On My Birthday About The Lack Of Communication, B/c The Fuckhead Forgot To Tell Me Happy Bday, And His Mom Has The Same Fucking Bday Too, And He Got Pissed And Called Me Dramatic. So I Have Been Afraid To Mention It Again.

Grrrr...he Also Tells Me To Not Ever Talk To Anyone About Him, And Sometimes Seems Like He Wants To Hide Me As Well. Like His First Show Was In The State We Live In, And He Asked Me Not To Go. Wtf??
Please Help Me Understand This Shit....gah!!

Or Am I Really Just Being Dramatic???

Why Is Your Entire Post Written Like It's A Title?

what band?

yr not being dramatic. you live with him so the relationship must have been a proper relationship, is it not? telling your girlfriend not to come to a show is pretty bloody mean, id have non of that shit! (well unless there was a particular reason why he didnt want you there, which there wasnt was there?)
you gave him "space" aswell, loads of people wouldnt do that in a relationship. youre not being unreasonable by any means. not contacting you, just sounds like he cant be bothered really? so maybe you shouldnt bother with him either

Did you know that 46.8% of all relationships disintegrate because one of the people involved insists in capitalising every word while the other strongly believes this to be wrong?

True story. And by true, I mean it's a big fat lie that I just made up.

But, in all seriousness, I'd just listen to bookstore. She's usually right about things, from what I can gather.

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musicians are people as well you know? Some of them will be jerks some won´t.
ugh

"I Told Him Before He Left I Know All The Temptions Of The Road, But To Not Let Me Find Out, Or Make It Obvious. " WTF. Is that like "cheat on me but don´t let me find out?" If you don´t demand respect how do you expect him to respect you?

He doesn´t want anyone to know he has a girlfriend that seems obvious. It´s like he thinks you should be so glad to fuck rockstar cock that you shouldn´t demand anything.

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