Is anyone doing this atm? My bf told me last night that when he moves into his new flat he is going to move into the single room. I have had to put up with a single bed for a year and a half and it is starting to wear thin. Then he said its the only way to save money and i said if you moved in with me you would save money and he didnt say anything so i was like i wish you'd just say you don't want to move in with me. Then he said fine I don't. For some reason hearing it just upset me. I said why don't you want to move in with me and to make it worse he said I don't know
Anyone else experienced awkward relationships? Like he's always so steriotypical boy about stuff like scared of commitment and all that crap not wanting a key. It's becoming tedious.

My bf and I are working to move in together. We already lived together though just with friends as well. So the only difference will be just the two of us there. Maybe your bfs not ready for that yet? Or hes afraid it'll change things? Maybe try finding out if he wants to later on just not right now?

See thats the thing we've lived together like in halls and i have a flat mate that he is really good friends with. I am not going to push the matter because there is no point. It's just wearing a little thin that everything has to be a big deal. Like we had such a big fight when i wanted to give him a key i had to leave and go and see my sister. Just dont want this to end up another built up argument.

most people need their own space. i do. and it doesn't mean i love someone any less. sometimes i wish my bf and i had our own seperate place.

and why rush into moving in together. save that stuff for marriage. or for the time when you both feel comfortable living together.

if you don't like sleeping on his single bed. i suggest you get him to spend more time at your place.

He does actually spend quite alot of time at my place thats why i thought it would make sense. Like i live in the city centre and when i want to see him or spend some time with him i have to walk out of town. Is a bit annoying but I do it and thats not really the point. Then to make the evening better i have to sleep on a single bed probably in a box room known his mate cause he knows my bf has no money ever and he can exploit it
Now i think about it your right. I just get a bit sick of having to wait for him to come round to everything.Like it's never him saying oh do you want to do this or that.

I am totally blowing out on kr this morning lol

How long have you been together?

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A year and a half I love him so much. We had a talk about it and he's now changed his mind he says that he wants to live with his mates but would be happy either living with me his mum or his mates. I am so confused sometimes. Also i totally forgot i am totally stressing about what my dad would say

Maybe wait a year or so?
I think a year & a half is a bit soon to be honest with you :\

Loads of people aren't ready to move in together cause they want their own space and stuff like that. Or they are scared that if they move in together and things DON'T work out very well, there is no nice way of saying "I hate living with you and I want to move out, but can we still date?"

i'd rather live in my car than live with a significant other i learned my lesson.

though. i have seen a number of couples live together without a problem. for years, even.

you have to wait until you both want to live together, otherwise it would never work

my boy and i are moving in together soon. we've been more than ready for months, it's just a question of saving up a bit of money and finding somewhere half decent. *huff* damn my being a student and thus skint.

Yeah... I'm in a weird non-situation regarding the moving-in thing. My roommate is, like, out of nowhere moving to Canada and looking for a total stranger to replace her. Needless to say, I am not happy about this. Meanwhile, my boyfriend lives on his own but can't really afford to and currently has a month-to-month lease. Luckily, we are (typically) rational people and are not going to let this set of circumstances push us into something we're not ready for (and I truly believe that we're NOT). All that being said, the seed of fantasy did sort of manage to plant itself, and this weird stupid-girly part of me feels like I wish he would have at least brought it up. But that's the stupid part! The real part (the part that actually looks out for me) knows its better this way.