I was just wondering how far ye go in terms of sex stuff when ya meet someone for the first time. I have had alot of shit happen in the last while and my esteem is low. When i drink i do get very drunk and have ended up sleeping or nearly sleeping with guys etc. I need to know what is the acceptable cos i know what i am doing is really stupid and dangerous.

If you want it to develop into a relationship then you don't do anything. If you don't hope to see them again then do whatevz.

RESPECT YO SELF.

yea. I've slept with guys I just met too because I was drunk and it is just the worst.
I mean, the sex sucks because you're drunk and your head's all over the place and when the guy is drunk chances are he's not gonna be able to get it up...

it's just stupid and it always made me feel terrible.
So I've decided to be more mature and just stop doing that.
It's just that when I get drunk I really want sex... lol.

but really. it's bad and like the last person said, don't do it if you want an actual relationship with that person.
although....I slept with this guy one night (we were both drunk of cheap vodka and we both started feeling ill during...haha. I don't really remember whether we actually did anything interesting or just both passed out). But yea...we did get together in a bf/gf type of thing a while after... but that's pretty rare...

Thanks guys for replying. I just feel i am a bit out of control and its scaring me. I haven't slept with many people but i almost could have and its really stupid and weak. That was good advice wtf_happened about if ya want a relationship don't do anything.I guess i should try actually talking to the person and getting to know their mind rather than just the physical stuff.

Always be friends first so you know it's not entirely based on them wanting to have sex with you ..