I met this guy at a bar on Wednesday. We started talking about music (which is the fastest way to my heart), and when he said he liked Belle & Sebastian I invited him back to my place to listen to some tunes, as he had only heard one of their cds. We ended up making out & BED STUFF (cuz I'm a total skank? whatevs) until 7am... while listening to Belle & Sebastian... and FYI, Belle & Sebastian + making out = the most magical, infinite feeling in the world, and I'm such a total fag for saying that.

We were doodling on a pad of paper, and I wrote my number on it & gave it to him, then we kissed goodbye so he could go to work. I almost figured he wouldn't call me back EVER because he's 27 (and I'm 21) and really amazing in my eyes, and only the creeps ever call.

But he called last night while I was sleeping. He actually fucking called. I know that it was him who called, because I yellow paged his number & his name came up. Technically he didn't GIVE me his number, I got it through my detective skills, so can I call him back or is that totally fucking creepy?
Cuz... he probably won't call back after I didn't pick up the first time he did.

I'm such a girl!
Sorry if this was boring.
I can spice it up with details if you want.

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I don't know the rules. Maybe wait and see if he calls again? If you don't want to or he doesn't call back just call him. I don't see anything wrong with that.

You obviously like each other, call him back, life's too short. If he asks how you got his number (which I'm sure will be the last thing on his mind when you call) just make a joke out of it. I mean he called you first so I don't see the problem with you finding out his number to call him back.

Or if you don't want to tell him you looked him up, couldn't you call him pretending you just checked the last number received thing (don't know what it is in Canada but it's 1471 in the UK) and just call asking who called you and then act all suprised when it's him. That's another idea but I'd just be honest, I think he's just going to be really happy that you called.

im sure dotty advice doesnt mean much to you but im going to give it to you anyways.
all you have to do is call him and say someone from this number called me and i was wondering who it was. act like you dont even know its him. and then when he's like its so and so act pleasantly suprised. sounds silly but i bet it will work.

I don't see anything wrong in returning his call. The fact that he did
could mean that he really likes you. If he considered your time
together as a one-nighter, he wouldn't have called you at all.
Don't be afraid to take a chance.

what happened to your curly haired boy?

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don't call.
he called once and if he is into you he will call again.

call himmmm yeah and then make out with him more


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how nice for you

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If you fancy him, call him. There are other guys out, more than likely one that you'll adore.

that's right you HAD a b/f?
maybe you are skank if he still is

I would have called back. Isn't it just common courtesy to return someone's call if you missed it?

If you don't return his call he might start thinking you missed it on purpose and then not call you again because he thinks you don't like him after all.

So I think you should just call him. Let him know you're interested.

What about the guy with the really brown eyes!?? He seemed lovely and you were really into him?

Was the number private? If its in the yellow pages does that mean it isn't? If its not private, just say you found out the last missed call and call it back. What if he goes out in the mean time and finds another girl who digs B&S and will put out?

oooh call him he LIKES you

call him pls. and report back.

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'I need new clothes', she thinks, 'new skin, a mind I can bear to live in'.

My ex boyfriend & I ended our relationship roughly two months ago. The amount that he loved me was unhealthy for the both of us. He was always accusing my guy friends of trying to sleep with me, telling me who I could hang out with (because some were apparently trying to sleep with me), would read my facebook multiple times a day. He got really angry when I changed my default photo from me & him to a new photo of me & my friend ashley. He also saw a comment I left on my friends photo, my friends all about tattoos and slamming bitches, and he was wearing a tiara so I commented, "You are such a pretty princess. How manly." And he literally LOST IT accusing me of hitting on my friend.
It was all too much.
I told the big long story because I want everyone to know that it wasn't just a "I got bored" sort of thing.
He still calls all the time.

p.s. The whole thing sounds kind of ridiculous now, but he lived an hour away, so things like facebook was one of our main forms of communication. And he spent a lot of time yelling at me for things that were CRAZY.

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Oh & I forgot the juicy stuff! So, I sat around for a lot of the night hoping he'd call, but he didn't so I went out for a beer with my friend. It was the same bar we met at, my favourite bar, and when I showed up, there he was. It was actually really awkward, as I honestly wasn't expecting him to be there & I didn't know what to say.
We spent a lot of the night just staring at each other from across the room. I was chatting up everyone else because thats what I do, I don't like coming on too strong. & Then eventually the bar cleared out, and we spoke:
Him: "You know.. I tried calling you last night."
Me: "Oh really? I saw that it was a missed call, but I didn't know who it was. Sorry about that, I was sleeping."
Him: "What are you doing later?"
Me: "Well.. I came here with friends... probably hanging out with them for a bit. They want to go back to his place to party, but I'll probably go home."
Him: "You should come hang out with me?"
Me: "I have to hang out with my friends first, I can't just ditch them. But give me a call in a bit and I'll tell you where I'm at."
Him: "I have to work really early tomorrow, so yeah..."
Me: "Alright, well then definitely call me in a few days or something, and we'll catch up."
Hug. Kiss. He hugs me with one arm? I hated that. & Goodbye.

& Then AS SOON as I got in the door, he calls.
Him: "Where are you? Hehehe"
Me: "I just got home!"
Him: "K I'll be there in 7 minutes."

It was actually 27 minutes.
So I guess the rest sort of tells itself. But yes... I ended up seeing him again, just how I wanted it to be. I'm so sly!

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