I met this guy at a bar on Wednesday. We started talking about music (which is the fastest way to my heart), and when he said he liked Belle & Sebastian I invited him back to my place to listen to some tunes, as he had only heard one of their cds. We ended up making out & BED STUFF (cuz I'm a total skank? whatevs) until 7am... while listening to Belle & Sebastian... and FYI, Belle & Sebastian + making out = the most magical, infinite feeling in the world, and I'm such a total fag for saying that.

We were doodling on a pad of paper, and I wrote my number on it & gave it to him, then we kissed goodbye so he could go to work. I almost figured he wouldn't call me back EVER because he's 27 (and I'm 21) and really amazing in my eyes, and only the creeps ever call.

But he called last night while I was sleeping. He actually fucking called. I know that it was him who called, because I yellow paged his number & his name came up. Technically he didn't GIVE me his number, I got it through my detective skills, so can I call him back or is that totally fucking creepy?
Cuz... he probably won't call back after I didn't pick up the first time he did.

I'm such a girl!
Sorry if this was boring.
I can spice it up with details if you want.

I don't know the rules. Maybe wait and see if he calls again? If you don't want to or he doesn't call back just call him. I don't see anything wrong with that.

You obviously like each other, call him back, life's too short. If he asks how you got his number (which I'm sure will be the last thing on his mind when you call) just make a joke out of it. I mean he called you first so I don't see the problem with you finding out his number to call him back.

Or if you don't want to tell him you looked him up, couldn't you call him pretending you just checked the last number received thing (don't know what it is in Canada but it's 1471 in the UK) and just call asking who called you and then act all suprised when it's him. That's another idea but I'd just be honest, I think he's just going to be really happy that you called.

im sure dotty advice doesnt mean much to you but im going to give it to you anyways.
all you have to do is call him and say someone from this number called me and i was wondering who it was. act like you dont even know its him. and then when he's like its so and so act pleasantly suprised. sounds silly but i bet it will work.

I don't see anything wrong in returning his call. The fact that he did
could mean that he really likes you. If he considered your time
together as a one-nighter, he wouldn't have called you at all.
Don't be afraid to take a chance.

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