and i hate it. i really dont have a reason to be but i am.
so today im looking at my mans myspace (oh god another one of these threads) and i see some really hot blonde chick that he's never mentioned before leaves him a comment that syas "thinking of you right now"
and im all BITCH WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND?
i shouldnt make anything of it right?
i probably will ask him who the fuck she is tho.
GAH.

I get like that ALOT. My boyfriend has aot of female friends that he talks to on Myspace, and even though I know he'd never cheat on me, I get pissed off when I see comments from them. I've found something that works surprisingly well though - becoming friends with them!

see i cant do that. i'd feel like if i tried to befriend her soley based on the fact that im jealous of her talking to my boyfriend that would be wrong. i dunno. its something i should get used to. he's a very popular drum and bass dj in this area so im sure he's got chicks throwing themselves at him left and right.
im usually pretty leveheaded in the relationship dept so i hate getting like this. im probably just being insecure.

I didn't become friends with any of them intentionally, a couple of them he introduced me to and one of them I met completely by chance at college. Maybe just ask him if he could introduce you to some of his friends, say you need some new girls to talk to? It helped me alot and I now don't feel threatened by the ones that I know.
To be honest though with my boyfriend it's more guys throwing themselves at him than girls!

oh thats not what i meant to imply
i just meant if i do it thats what it would be. because i have no interest in being this girls friend outside of the fact that she's leaving my boyfriend comments like that.
i know a lot of his friends that are girls. hell, he lives with two girls. and im ok with that. and i like them all. ive just never even heard of this girl before. hell for all i know he might not even know her outside of myspace.
i guess what made it worse was i was going to comment him and tell him how much i love him and then i saw that and my heart sunk a little.
im such a silly girl.