That's me. Most of the guys I've met here use me on some level...it's emotional support that they can't get from someone else and never reciprocate towards me; that's the biggest let down.
Answer me this: Is it abusive if someone only calls you when they need your help (IE: too drunk to drive home or even walk, so they call me b/c I am the nearest person when it comes to their bar of choice)? Or they are blatantly rude to me 99.9% of the time and only open up to me when they are annilated beyond belief? ...and deny it afterwards.
I put up with this and don't know why.
Yes, self-esteem issues, but does anyone else deal with **** like this?