Can you be "inlove" with someone and sleep with someone else for fun?

For me when you are inlove,you dont even THINK about anyone else...and your mind is pointed at that special one.

My best friend cheated on her boyfriend of a year on holiday last week,she slept with someone ,bascially done the fullthing.
But she claims that she really is inlove with her boyfriend?!!

I agree with you, if you really are in love with someone you don't cheat. It's not even an issue- you just dont ever want to or even think about it. But in a situation where you're on holiday, you might be looking at it from a perspective of a special experience. Of all the times that I've THOUGHT I was in love, there's only been once where I felt the natural desire to be faithful. Maybe your friend just THINKS she loves her boyfriend, cares about him a lot, ect. Is she going to tell him? I think that makes a difference too. Does she feel the guilt to tell him, ya know.

I agree with you as well. I wouldn't think she was in love with him if shes sleeping with other people.

na,shes not going to tell him. I mean im single, so i had my fun or whatever... and it wasnt even until the last night of the holiday she decided to do it. She said she thought the guy was really nice etc,but that really doesnt even matter. She says she doesnt even feel guilty, she says she doesnt feel like she even done it. Its all abit ****ed...

Yeah. I would think if she was really in love with him, she wouldn't even have the desire to sleep with anyone else.