Originally Posted by birthmark1
She knew I had feelings for him and she should have been honest enough to come to me first and tell me she had strong feelings for him too. As a friend that is what she should have done. I really had no idea! It felt like it came out of nowhere.That is what I think is ****ty! She said herself that she hid them.
I know the guy can't make things better for me. But she knew me and how private I am. And the way she went about getting the guy was selfish! If she had just let me know i could have dealt with it in my own private way. In stead of having people know about it. As i have been through enough(thats what i meant by saying she had seen me so hurt over other stuff)
Yes i wish I had pretended things were fine but I didn't. As i already said I i am embarassed about how i reacted. But I know i would never do that to a friend. The whole thing leaves me with shame, embarrassment and humilation.
well... for me, you didn't react as a school girl or something.
you kissed; for me, you did go out together. that's my opinion. at 15 or not, for me, it's the same.or wonder about your respect for your friends...
she knew you liked him very much. she's not your friend if she came to see him anyways. but the guy is not nice neither!
i understand you was upset and disappointed and everything.
i had quite the same story when i as 16. a crazy ***** went out with the guy i loved as hell; i mean, everyone knew about that.
and you know what? everyone laughed at him as he was with that *****. he got rid of her. 2 weeks after the day i knew they were going out together, she has been excluded from the group, and mostly from the whole high school. girls didn't trust her anymore. guys didn't want to be seen with that *****.
10 years after, people are still saying she has been a ***** with me. included the guy i loved so much, now he's one of my best friends...
so: don't care, ignore them, and look at other guys