Ok, so two years ago I met this guy through a mutual friend. And we hit it off right away, like the 4th time we saw each other we were making out. Then that same week he suddenly was "turned off" by me and he didn't want to continue anything romantically or sexually. I was upset but I accepted it and sugested if we could be friends and he said yes and we were friends. But then he started getting all weird, like he wouldn't say hello to me, and when I did he talked as if he were doing me a favor. One day we were in a club and he was with his people and I was with mine and he didn't approach me and I didn't approach him either. We were far apart. So today I'm walking down the street and I see him at a distance and I kept walking and I passed near him and he looked at me and he wasn't going to say hello, but I still said hello and he just said hello like, I mean if his life depended on it he would die.

I was offended by it, I mean I just don't understand his attitude. Not that I care, it's just that I don't uderstand it. I mean why would you ignore someone you had a fling with and you ended in good terms??? That to me is trashy and rude behavior. It's totally uncalled for. Is it because I'm repulsive???? am I that insignificant in his head???? or does he feel like I owe him something?? Like somehow he won because he dumped me and he expects me to get out of my way for his attention??? like I should want his attention. Like he deserves it. Give me a break.

The other guy I've ever been with, he was my best friend for a year and we had a 2 month long afair and he dumped me because he had feelings for his ex. Well I don't talk to him and would never say hello to him but it's because things ended very bitterly and I'm still deeply resentful. That's valid. But I don't have a problem with that guy. What a scumbag. I chose the classy behavior today.

There is this other guy I also had a fling with, and I ended it because I didn't really want anything with him. We ended in good terms. When I see him I make a point of saying hello, I mean I feel like he deserves my friendship or at least my kindness because I dumped him, and he's always very nice. I'm just not a rude person you know?? I don't like being rude. But some people are like so horrible. Go read some Kabbalah or something.

he's not even worth getting upset over, he's obviously a coward. i'd get over it and try not to let it bother you.

that's happened to me, lol

well kinda. i met this guy once or twice, and we ended up making out one time. he told me all sorts of things about how awesome i was and how much he liked me, and i didn't really care because he was a tool. i was just having fun in the swimming pool lol. so anyway, i go on a volunteer trip for 3 weeks, so i don't see him out. like i said, i didn't want to be his girlfriend or anything, lol. but the next time i see him, he literally pretends i'm not there. this keeps happening until eventually my best friends boyfriend introduces him to me, asking if we've met lol. it was funny. he blushed and was all embarrassed. lol
i thought we were friends, but he obviously wanted to make it clear to me how he wasn't interested lol

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this hasn't happened to me cause with me and my ex-boyfriends usually the case is: a) we end in good terms and stay friends, b) we swear eternal hatred for one another. but, in your case, all i can say is: ignore him. there's no point really getting upset over a guy who can't even say hello to you on the street.

yeah, the funny thing is if oyu ignore him in the street, one day you'll be at a party and he'll be like 'hey! you don't say hello to me anymore!' or something lame.

lol

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