My ex boyfriend is a screwed up shite, i have discovered. I mean he's always been an arse but i think it's reached new levels. For example, he waltzed into the pub one night, hand in hand with someone else...after not speaking to me for four days = game over on relationship. Since then, we have randomly pulled and had sex every so often. Recently I thought I was pregnant and he coldly told me to get rid of it. Luckily, I wasn't. One of his friends has a big crush on me (which is unrequited) my ex will taunt his friend with the fact after one too many beers. The thing that pissed me off the most, is he is talking about wanting babies with my replacement (the girl he is still with) and yet just over a month ago was telling me to in no uncertain terms to have an abortion if I needed one. That is the thing I find most hurtful, the fact that the baby I might have been carrying (but luckily wasnt) wasn't good enough for him. I start to wonder what this girl has that I don't?? I mean he cheats on her all the time and then comes out with statements like that. I really feel i'll never move on
So, anyway make me feel better...give me stories of your horrid exs and how you got over them.

god he just sounds like an immature bastard. could you really see yourself having a relationship with someone like that?

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

he's a cunt, cut him out

if you keep him in your life you're allowing him to make you feel this way

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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking

And don't even think about bringing his child into our world

Big mistake thinking that way, it just makes the emotional hurt worse.

wow.
i don't have anything to say that hasn't already been said really, but if i were you i'd be jumping for joy that i wasn't with him anymore.

He is being hurtful on purpose and that is gross. But in all honesty both of you sound immature. You can't just have casual sex with an ex while he is in the process of seeing another girl, deal with pregnancy scares and who the hell knows what else and expect something healthy to come out of this.

Seriously cut the crap and stop clinging to this loser. The longer you hold out hope that something will change is the longer he will hurt you.

count yourself fucking lucky you dont have it, he's a cunt

Just be happy that you're not with him anymore, and move on. It shouldn't matter to you who he's with now. Just totally forget that he exists.

why on earth are you still sleeping with him?!

he sounds like a disasterous waste of carbon. if you incinerated him, you might be left with a much nicer lump of coal.

stop sleeping with someone who's making you feel like shit. and don't touch shit, it makes it stink more.

You should force him to have his genitals cut off and made into a stunning handbag.

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f**k his friend

that will give him something to think about....

yes! but before you do, learn how to give tantric handjobs and give him the best handjob ever so he can get drunk and let slip to the ex just how amazing you are. then make a note to never ever sleep with the ex again. would you really would have wanted to have a baby with him if he is so awful to you?

All of that sounds pretty timid compaired to my ex, the father of my children.
Just count yourself lucky that you never did have kids with him.
Brings a whole new demention to it all.
Oh on a plus note, I never slept with my ex...

I presume you mean after you split up, unless you did that in vitro thing

To the original poster - I would advise you to move far, far away from your ex, if you can.

hahaha, then i could sell it on ebay and live off the profit

Oooh this turned into a bit of an advice thread. All of you are right of course. He is someone i should cut out of my life. Hopefully i'm moving to Brighton soon (good except the replacement goes to university there ) He's so fucking twisted. I'm sick of being accused of sleeping with his friends. I drunkenly kissed one of his good friends and when he found out he went mental and nearly punched the guy, which is totally unlike him..he doesn't do violence. When I do try to move on, he just ruins it by spreading some awful lie about me. Seriously, i've had people i dont even know come up to me and have a go...i've been called all sorts. Hopefully when I move it'll be a fresh start...he has lots of my things at his house and I've asked for them back loads but he wont let me have them back... for example he says he'll ring me about my things but never does, what is the point in him holding onto these things??

unless they're things that are seriously vital to your livelihood, i would just let him keep them so that you don't have to deal with him anymore.