so what do you guys do?

i've been single forever and it's not that i mind entirely it just gets lonely sometimes. i know what i want and im not going to find it where i am at right now. and i dont want to settle. i'd rather be alone.

it's not that i cuddle with my pillow every night or anything like that. i dont even know what im saying. but what do you guys do? id love to go out on the hunt but i never find what i want and if i do they never want me back it seems.

suggestions?

Well... I have been single for almost a year. Before that relationship I had a really heartbreaking break up and was single for well over a year. I'm very picky so I'm often single anymore. I used to be less picky so I was always in a relationship and it's still kind of strange to see myself as someone unattached.

I don't even know what I do to get by. I don't even know if I do get by. I mean I don't always think about the fact that I even could be in a relationship, but nevertheless when I think about it I get sad.

I live in Tulsa, aka Emo city, so I find very few people I could even begin to get along with here to begin with. I also don't like petty dating.

Anyway, I suppose I just try to not dwell on it. It's hard though because I'm the type of person that LOVES romantic comedies, V-Day, etc. and I wish I had someone to make little romantic gestures for and what not but... It's definitely better to be single than in a relationship that isn't fulfilling by any means.

Try to enjoy the fact that you can do whatever you want whenever you want though. I mean that's the main drawback of a relationship, right? You can see whatever movie you want, go to whatever restaurant you want, not have all their stuff cluttering your house, etc. Hehe, just try not to worry. The important thing is to definitely not settle, in my opinion.

Not sure if that helped whatsoever.

EDIT: Oh yeah and when you're single you don't have to feel bad when you check people out.