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Old 04-01-2007, 03:18 AM
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men.....meh!

i've had a crush on this guy for years, he flirted with me when i had a bf so i brushed it off. then he dated some one i knew so nothing happened. now he's single, i'm single and it turns out my best friend kinda likes him.

we were all out tonight and it was obvious that he was into me and i tried to distance myself from the situation. my friend then decided to leave and kinda took off in a bit of a huff.

nothing happened, as much as i wanted to fuck him, as i have for over 5 years...instead he walked me home to my apartment building and we kissed goodnight. then 10 mins later i got a text saying he had a great time and wants to hang out again.

the guy in question, has a bit of a bad rep and it's not like i want a relationship with him, just some fun. he's a nice guy and is fun to talk to and has the same interests. he's be a great concert buddy as he likes good music.

meh, what do i do?

fuck, tell me to get a livejournal....
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Old 04-01-2007, 03:19 AM
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Old 04-01-2007, 03:21 AM
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Yeah well after all the while here he is expressing interest ... even if its just a fling ~ if you really want to ~ you know its yours for the asking now.
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Just tell him you want to fuck only?
oh, he knows that! but now my best friends in the middle and i know his ex and it's all so complicated.

if we fuck, which we probably will, his ex will find out and be pissed, my best friend will find out and be pissed and is a fuck really worth all this?

if so, he better be good.

cos' he's fucking adorable.
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Old 04-01-2007, 03:24 AM
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Yesss sometimes in this world.. a fuck is worth all that sometimes... I mean if people get annoyed thats one thing ~ don't want to bleed their hearts ya know...
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Yesss sometimes in this world.. a fuck is worth all that sometimes... I mean if people get annoyed thats one thing ~ don't want to bleed their hearts ya know...
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fuckin' hell, now he is online, along with his ex, whom i know and my best friend!

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Old 04-01-2007, 03:37 AM
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fuckin' hell, now he is online, along with his ex, whom i know and my best friend!

argh!
Gah... this is where it gets to that bleeding heart place Your too good Brian ..too good
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your friends will get over it.


it's not like he's actually in a relationship with any of them, is he?


if they throw tanties they're just selfish cunts tbh

go get yours. as i said, they'll get over it.
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Old 04-01-2007, 08:19 AM
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Pix plz. It's not like he'll ever find out.

I think you should be ashamed of your feelings, and retire to a monastery for a life of contemplation. And fucking other monks.
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Just do it and then say he spiked your drink
No, honestly I don't know. I think maybe I wouldn't do it cause of the friend, but in the past I've refrained from doin sooo many things just because I didn't want to hurt my friends and they NEVER did the same for me. Depends whether the friendship and/or the shag are really worth it.
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convince him to do 3 way with the friend & everybody wins?
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oh, he knows that! but now my best friends in the middle and i know his ex and it's all so complicated.

if we fuck, which we probably will, his ex will find out and be pissed, my best friend will find out and be pissed and is a fuck really worth all this?

if so, he better be good.

cos' he's fucking adorable.

yeah who cares really, it's his EX, you have a right to fuck him, what is she like obsessed over him still? don't worry about it, you're not living your sex life and realtionships for your friends and what people think. or for that matter any of your ife.

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