Okay, so this guy, who said he really liked me and wanted to get serious with me, he texted me called me instant messaged me all the time.. now after I met him we started getting really intimate and he kept hintign and hinting to do sexual stuff.. I just didn't say anything cause I didnt want to.. then he suddenly changed the way he acted, took me home 3 hours early, then later that night I told him I didnt feel like he liked me, I asked him if he had feelinsg for me, he said hes not sure, and now hes not talking to me at all which is way different than how he was acting before

Why? what did I do? and what DO I do? we were supposed to hang out tomorrow but its already 9 and he hasnt talked to me at all. do I go ahead and make other plans or what?

Believe me, it's what you didn't do that counts. Why do you think he was even talking to you?!

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I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

He just wants to get in your pants.
Thats all.

if you learn now, you can know...the guy was just SAYING he liked you,

he liked the idea of having sex with you -- he didn't really have the time to care about you PERSONALLY. guys are like that sometimes, which ruins it for the rest of us...

if he had been the guy to take time to get to know you, who knows?
it happens all the time, but he just wanted SEX.

the thing is, it's okay to keep believing in relationships...that was just one guy, so all in all you didn't do ANYTHING wrong...that was plain old PRESSURE...

maybe he read all the things you said about him on the internetz.

What did you do right?

Suck his dick, he'll probably talk to you more. I mean, the fact that you didn't do anything just proves you're the ultimate square. He's going to tell all your other gay friends that you don't put out. I don't think you want that. They already know you cry when you get buttfucked.

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Cheeseburger lips!

Yeah, all the mystery is gone, so you might as well not get precious about keeping any.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

Okay well I would if he'd give me the chance. I need his attention so what do I do to get him to talk to me again so I can hang out with him again so I can give him what he wants?

Maybe you should have just been up front with him and said that you don't want to get physical until you know him a little bit better. Maybe he thinks you are playing games. Tricks are for kids.

he's a sexual predator.

and you're the most gullible person alive.

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Harsh but fair. And fairly harsh.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

You want him? Simple: ignore him. Always be 'unavailable' or 'busy'. Talk in airy, breezy tones and end the conversation with something ambiguous, like 'take care' or 'ciao' (as you faggy types say). If you find the time to see him, keep it brief and no matter how horny you may be, dont' put out. If he's a typical male, after his conquest he'll move on to another challenge without so much as a reach-around. Most importantly, make him believe you'll be fine without him. This is how you'll get his attention.

And if that doesn't work, do as I do and show up at his house in stoned off your gourd, begging for a second chance, or at least a mercy fuck. Might as well blow a load, if nothing else.

Wow, for the first time in my entire existence on kittyradio I actually recieve really, really good advice.

Thank you!!!!

that never works out with me-

it's always going to be good advice when its what you want to hear.

lol..

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i know. whenever i try that, the scenario ends up TOTALLY like the turbulant situation between madonna and her father as portrayed in the video clip for papa don't preach.

first of all, you hadn't even met him and you are going on like you were intimate lovers before you even met. then he met you and obviously that connection wasn't there. life is like that.

1. don't get too into someone via emails, texts and my space

2. when you meet them don't spread like butter

3. meet to talk, go for coffee, go to an amusment park. get to know each other before you get intimate.

4. stop with the drugs, they give you a false sense of reality that only disapoints you a few hours later.

5. if you're gonna be a little slut, make them WEAR CONDOMS!!!!

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haha