my boyfriend ( of only 2 months ) keeps hinting for me to take pictures of myself and send them to him.
This week hes in prague and last night he was drunk,and asked AGAIN, i was like, no i dont feel comfortable! but he wont let it go hopefully he will appologise today for his drunken words..
Our relationship has been great so far and i mean he usually really sensative. i just think it was because hes in another country,and very very drunk,and horny of course. but god, its so fuckin annoying..

how do you feel about taking dirty pictures of yourself?

My stance on this is always no because if you break up one day god knows where they'll end up.

YES. And they always tell their friends about it. Some even show their friends their hot gfs bodies. No. Take a picture of broccoli and put your face on it and tell him its sexy. If he is drunk, he might believe you.

lol, oh, Ive sent about 10 pics of me in lingerie before before he moved here and I had nude done too but I think I didnt send it, in fact knowing the snoop my mom was she probably found them too. But I was confident we were in that place and engaged, um,but just ordinary boyfriends,,,wouldnt risk it
Also I had about 50 polaroids of him nude......just in case it gets nasty

My ex has pictures of himself and his girlfriend in various sexual poses and naked pictures of her on his phone which my 13 year old son managed to access while looking for music and pictures on his dads phone. You can't be sure that your boyfriend will be the only person who can see these pictures, and as someone else said, if you do break up things like that can be used against you.

I know that when you're in love you think you can trust who you are with, I had made a video with my ex, and made sure I destroyed it when I left (he promised that he wouldn't do anything with it, if I left it there) luckily I did destroy it because over the last couple of years he has tried so many ways to piss me off, upset me or cause trouble for me, that I'm sure if he still had the video he would of used it against me.

one of my exes has some fairly graphic pictures of me.
i'm not worried about it though.
even though things ended badly, i still trust him enough to know he would not show them to anyone. and even if he did - i really don't care. i mean obviously i don't want my parents or anything to see them, but anyone else eh. it wouldn't bother me.

but. if you don't feel comfortable with it then you shouldn't do it. and you should tell him so and if he keeps bothering you about it just firmly say "this topic is not up for discussion any longer. i've told you my answer and it's not going to change. DROP IT."

If you dont feel comfortable then dont do it. I sent my boyfriend a topless picture of myself but I know even if we broke up he wouldnt show people. I wouldnt have done it if I even thought he might entertain the idea. But if you just dont want to then dont let him pressure you, its up to you what you do with your body!

its the fact that iv already told him i didnt feel comfortable sending naked pictures of myself. Me and my ex took lots of naked pictures/videos , of eachother and iv felt like a complete slut ever since..
but yeah
so he text me earlier and applogised for "being an arse" and that he knows i dont feel comfortable doing it and he shouldnt of even asked. its a shame im kinda mad at him because when he gets back from his hol on sunday night i just wanted to shag him senceless

after two months i definitely wouldn't. i've sent them to my then-boyfriend and when we broke up i deleted them from his phone myself. but after only 2 months, no way.

ya two months is a little quick. but when my bf and i weren't living together i was always sending him topless pics. haha. i'm a whore like that.

topless isnt so bad, but was i gonig to point my camera at my fanny and take a picture? nooooooo hahah
hes back from holiday, and its not been mentioned.but he knows how i feel about it all so hopefully thats the end of that!

eeek.

no not without a prenup.

I read in some magazine that if you make a movie or take pictures of each other in the nude, it's actually advisable to see a solicitor and sign a contract.

Breakups can get so ugly. You just don't see it when you're in love.

Yep, I agree with this. You don't know what he might do with them - he could sell them to a website, show them to his friends, show them to your friends... I'd feel really weird if I knew that someone was masturbating to pictures of me. Even if it was my boyfriend. Eeeugh.