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Old 03-27-2007, 07:15 AM
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girls asking out boys on dates

i'm generally against it. if a boy likes me, he should ask me out. but i'm interested to know other people's thoughts on the subject.

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Old 03-27-2007, 07:23 AM
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hot. i think it really detracts from the idea of independent women if men have to do all the legwork. if a girl likes me she should tell ME as much as i should tell her.
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:28 AM
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Bron why do you think that? What would happen if you asked a guy out?

I think both sexes should ask any sex out if they feel comfortable. I guess it's my opinion that if you don't want to ask someone out then it's because you fear rejection. I used to never ask anybody out ever. Now, if I were single & I liked a guy I would certainly ask him out. Why the hell not
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:35 AM
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i kind of see it as - boys like the chase/to pursue. so if i ask him to go out or hang out then i'm fucking up the whole him pursuing me and thus ending the chase and therefore he will be more likely to get bored with the whole thing.

but in the situation i'm in at the moment we both already know we like each other so maybe the whole chase thing is already over. i don't know. i suck at this stuff.
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:37 AM
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I've never asked out boys out because I am scared of rejection.
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:39 AM
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loads of boys are scared of rejection. why should we sufer the shun. tradition? well it was traditional for you lot to do my cooking before you could vote. if youre not going to ask me out, thats the way it should be
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:40 AM
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i kind of see it as - boys like the chase/to pursue. so if i ask him to go out or hang out then i'm fucking up the whole him pursuing me and thus ending the chase and therefore he will be more likely to get bored with the whole thing.

but in the situation i'm in at the moment we both already know we like each other so maybe the whole chase thing is already over. i don't know. i suck at this stuff.
I think that's a bit of a stereotype though... I don't think all guys like the chase. I think some of them are as shit scared as we are & just wish we would ask them for a change. I reckon a lot of the guys that are in it for the chase are also the guys that will sabotage the relationship when they get bored anyway... so maybe that's not the kind of guy you want in the first place?
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I've never asked out boys out because I am scared of rejection.
I really feel like you shouldn't be because you are clearly wonderful.
I had a dream that you were in last night for some reason. You were extraordinarily tall. & you had the most beautiful, longest scarf on in the world. You were very excitable, like a puppy. It was cute.
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Old 03-27-2007, 07:42 AM
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loads of boys are scared of rejection. why should we sufer the shun. tradition? well it was traditional for you lot to do my cooking before you could vote. if youre not going to ask me out, thats the way it should be
well I do the cooking so I'm going to stick to being scared.
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Old 03-27-2007, 08:22 AM
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lesbianism must be fun then.
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Old 03-27-2007, 09:04 AM
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whoever is the most butchest has to ask the other girl out. FACT.
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Old 03-27-2007, 09:06 AM
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Old 03-27-2007, 09:07 AM
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asking is such a turn off....


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well, i like women but still, i think it's ridiculous to wait for a boy to ask you out.if you like him, ask.that's the idea of equality.
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Old 03-27-2007, 09:53 AM
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i've asked boys out before, it was fine. i would prefer if they asked me, but i've done it and they thought it was cool.
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Old 03-27-2007, 09:59 AM
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i'd prefer it if the boys did all the asking, but i'm not saying they should.
i've been known to ask boys out too...i mean why wait around when you see something you want?
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i asked a boy out once and was DENIED

generally i think the way society is set up, if a boy likes you, he'll ask you out, because it's deemed to be his job. thus f he's not asking you he probably doesn't like you.


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whoever is the most butchest has to ask the other girl out. FACT.
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generally if a boy likes you, you will know about it and i would generally agree that they like the pursuit, but i think girls should ask out boys too, have t say i've never done it.
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