this was in my whitetrash mcdonalds thread in the void but I do want to have a serious discussion about this.

So this is how it started:
i saw my soulmate on tv and it was the weirdest thing ever. It was an interview with this guy and he was talking about his fears and insecurities and things like that and his past and I could relate so well and I understood him and we would probably understand each other. I sent him a myspace message not in a creepy way though. just that it was a really nice interview and I understood what he was talking about and I wished him a lot of luck. He appreciated and answered back right away.

but enough about him. I don't know him obviously, and that's the problem:

it's just that I know there are people out there who I can connect to and I would be able to share everything with but I never seem to meet them. Should I go looking for them? But where? And shouldn't it just happen? Am I too obsessive over it? It's just that I've had quite a few boyfriends but none of them I really connected with, I never felt comfortable with. It was more like "alright....let's date for a while cos I should have a bf now" and then we'd date and then I'd be s fucking annoyed and bored after a short time and I dumped them again. this is like a pattern for me.
the only boy I really could've had a great relationship with was my first one but I was 16 and stupid and I broke up with him after two months.... I still think about him a lot though.

ADVICE. THOUGHTS.

i feel the same way.

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dithyrambic does not:
have a husband
have a child
fight over ice cream
care that you dont know who she is.

That's what dating is all about. Getting to know people to see if it will go anywhere. I don't know when being in a relationship meant that you were pretty much engaged! It's pissing me off. This mindset has put me off even dating! Just been seeing a guy who told me after spending less than two months together that he planned to marry me and was in love with me wtf?! it's over now :-)

But back to the question... you do find people and connect with them. These things just happen and if you try to push, find and force them you spoil the magic. Let it happen and enjoy xx

Yeah Eddie Vedder is my soul mate...what ya gonna do?

i have a soulmate but he isn't someone that i will ever be in a relationship with or that i ever want to be in a relationship with. he;s just the other half of myself, the person who gets me completely, who is more than my best friend, more than my lover. our relationship is completely platonic - he's a gay male and i';m a mostly straight female. but there you have it.

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I met a probably soulmate in a university summer school lecture. My man on the ground in Chch is currently tracking him down for me. With some success! I'm quite excited...

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

well. I've dated quite a bit in America and met guys but never someone I really felt comfortable with and connected with....
And here in Belgium there's really not a dating mentality.... especially not with people my age.... there's some actual dating going on with people in their 30's but it seems people my age just meet their bf/gf when going out... but that doesn't really seem like the best place for me to meet people I can connect with.... everyone's drunk and stuff and people start making out after they just met... That's not really what I'm looking for.

I'm also looking for someone a little older than me.

i don't believe in soulmates. i used to but...not anymore.
not in the romantic sense anyways.

you're gay?

why I'm shocked that a dude on kittyradio is gay I dunno.... but you Bort????

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Would you like a cigarette? They're quite exellent.

i have a soul mate, and we dated, and then i cheated on him, and now he hates me. way to screw that one up.

i bought a milkshake from mcdonalds on saturday night.

in my humble opinion: love is this infinite thing.
i know someone who really said 'if the boy is not jealous it means he doesn't care.' jealous males have done so much rotten stuf to females...i think that's sad.

thing is, there are generational things that a LOT of people hold in common.
what if you met someone who affirmed you, made you feel like a soul mate, and then met someone else? or a couple of people?

what i am implying is that monogamy seems insisted on, and people don't contemplate everything that it means...love is totally real, plus, it's unlimited, and it grows, it makes you want more love.

So love is like heroin?

I do the exact same thing. The EXACT same thing. But I'm becoming celibate now ... I've decided not to have sex again until I'm actually in love because I'm starting to feel like a bit of a whore. Maybe I am. Whatever. I think you should concentrate more on loving yourself, though. Do whatever you want, whenever you want. Be spontaneous and really pursue the experiences you dream about. When you're flowing with the patterns of the universe and letting chaos lead you, things which are good for you seem to occur ... as though whatever you need, you get ... or at least in my case that's true. I sound like a fucking hippie. Maybe I am. Whatever.

so is that what heroin is like? maybe i should stop being square and try some.
do you think i need it to be "cool"?

see, i think that means you will have some multiply orgasmic, banging, awesome love making eventually, i think. plus, i bet you already did.
i just wanna say this, if you feel guilt about stuff you've done, i hope you face that guilt, let it go, so your soul can feel light and you can attract that love you want, cause you obviously want it.
and hippies were cool. it was the establishment and the man who made them go into hiding/suppression/exile...that peace and love and togetherness talk was NEVER bullshit...it's the 'nothing matters' line of jive that is bullshit, and that is what the establishment wanted youth to start thinking...

I'm a bad ghey. I knew that already. This confirms.

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Time is the distance that you can't return by miles.

I escaped somehow. Let's go

actualy [sic] I have quite a blessed life if I'm honest. I have many people to love, hate few and have few money problem's [sic].... What more does a person need? Oh yeah and I have some kind of humbleness unlike you of course ^_^ ~ CarefulCarpenter

you fail at homosexuality. do not pass go, do not collect $200.

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