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03-18-2007, 02:33 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | | myspace status supremely silly question but,
how long should you wait to change your myspace status to single? immediately?
should you wait for the other person to do it first?
if they have havent switched it in a few days, should you message to remind them?
or is it just not a big deal?
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03-18-2007, 02:36 PM
|  | Chairman~MouseyTongue | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chairman Meow
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| | | wait a week if it was serious
right now if it wasnt a big break up or a long relationship. | 
03-18-2007, 02:37 PM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | wait until he does.
i can't even begin to describe how much it CRUSHED me lol when he changed his back to single
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03-18-2007, 02:38 PM
| | Because I was hungry... | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | I think it depends on whether or not you wish to spite them. Or how urgently you are looking to get laid. | 
03-18-2007, 02:39 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by BleedingHeart wait a week if it was serious
right now if it wasnt a big break up or a long relationship. | how long is long? it was nine months .
i suppose i will wait. i had changed it immediately but then a few hours later put it back because he hadn't changed his yet.
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03-18-2007, 02:39 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by SBeakon I think it depends on whether or not you wish to spite them. Or how urgently you are looking to get laid. | not at all , either of those things.
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03-18-2007, 02:41 PM
|  | ♪ | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hears sirens
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| | | so the break up is official?
__________________ [ o ]==# "A junkie is someone who uses their body to tell society that something is wrong.” - Stella Adler | 
03-18-2007, 02:41 PM
|  | Chairman~MouseyTongue | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chairman Meow
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dithyrambic how long is long? it was nine months .
i suppose i will wait. i had changed it immediately but then a few hours later put it back because he hadn't changed his yet. | this sounds totally emo, wait til he does if it bothers you. And if he asks, say you "forgot" to change it. | 
03-18-2007, 02:41 PM
|  | bluebirds | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: at the tragedy sale
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| | | Haha...so many new rules of social etiquette...
When I split up with my ex-boyfriend I had to click "cancel relationship" on facebook so it wouldn't say we were going out anymore. I hid my "relationship status" on my feed, but when he clicked that he agreed he didn't seem to think to click "hide", so everyone saw anyway.
Maybe leave it for a few days to see if he does anything, if he asks, say you haven't been on myspace for a while. Otherwise, just change it to "undisclosed" after a few days. It also depends on what SBeakon says. | 
03-18-2007, 02:42 PM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | going into your edit profile and changing it is a lot of effort just to tell people you broke up. he broke up with you, he should do it first.
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03-18-2007, 02:44 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | cala, i am assuming so. we are meeting tonight to discuss and apparently work on our zine  that shouldnt be awkward  he said before there was no chance for reconciliation but he may have changed his mind. i dont know. i am just not getting my hopes up.
how do you put it as undisclosed on myspace? it doesn't have "no answer" or anything, or hide on myspace. facebook is better that way.
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03-18-2007, 02:44 PM
|  | subs gone, pls sign reps! | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | i totally forgot to change it on myspace when i broke up with my bf of 4 years and then when i logged in again i was in another relationship, haha
shows how much i use myspace | 
03-18-2007, 02:44 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by discolexy going into your edit profile and changing it is a lot of effort just to tell people you broke up. he broke up with you, he should do it first. | that does seem like good etiquette. the breaker-upper should do it first. it was his idea after all.
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03-18-2007, 02:47 PM
| | Because I was hungry... | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by discolexy going into your edit profile and changing it is a lot of effort just to tell people you broke up. he broke up with you, he should do it first. | Discolexy has become the voice of reason here. I agree. | 
03-18-2007, 02:49 PM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | what can i say. i know about breaking up on the internet. 
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03-18-2007, 02:50 PM
| | Because I was hungry... | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to discolexy again. | 
03-18-2007, 02:53 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | | i wish myspace had a news feed like facebook so i could always see when people change things.
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03-18-2007, 04:00 PM
|  | bluebirds | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: at the tragedy sale
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| | Quote:
Originally Posted by Dithyrambic
how do you put it as undisclosed on myspace? it doesn't have "no answer" or anything, or hide on myspace. facebook is better that way. | I don't know, I don't have a myspace, only a facebook. Can't you just leave it on the "select an option" one? There must be some way of not showing your relationship status. Quote: |
Originally Posted by Dithyrambic i wish myspace had a news feed like facebook so i could always see when people change things. | Nooo no no no. That is the hell of facebook! Everyone knows what you're doing, whose profiles you're commenting on, what you're writing...*looks around shiftily*
Thanks for the pos. rep btw  | 
03-18-2007, 04:23 PM
|  | kitschy minger | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the medusa cascade
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| | i love that about facebook  i always want to know what people are up to.
and myspace you just have :
swinger
in a relationship
single
married
divorced
and maybe something else. there is no "select one" or anything.
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03-18-2007, 04:39 PM
|  | This space for rent | | Join Date: Aug 2006
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| | | I always put swinger if I don't want people to know my business...lol. Keeps 'em wondering. | |