..ok i didn't know where to post this due to the new layout and all, but hopefully this is ok.

2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years for some one else I met at uni. He's a virgin and relatively inexperienced compared to me, but this doesn't bother me. Every time we try to have sex he comes before it can even happen, or he can't stay hard, I'm feeling really frustrated and confused because its starting to impact on our relationship. I feel like we've tried everything, from loads of foreplay to none at all, but it seems like we are never going to be able to have sex. If anyone has got any advice or experience in this sort of thing I'd love to hear it because I really don't know what to do

Thanks xx

Some guys are chronic premature ejaculators. But yours is a virgin. With time that might all change. I think I've seen lubricants advertised for "control" purposes, if you haven't already tried that.

you said you've tried lots of foreplay.


but what about like... letting him come, then trying again?

boys aren't that good with the whole coming loads and loads straight after again. so like. the first splooge should be easy. then the second time he might go for longer?

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Unless his libido disappears after he comes. An annoyingly common male tendency.

he's young though. i mean give him ten minutes and he'll be okay?

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