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03-12-2007, 09:52 AM
|  | BADMAN. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: my manor.
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I have noticed a lot of people on here seem to think casual sex is bad, even when it is other people (not themselves or partners) doing it.
if you are one of these people please explain why you feel this way.
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03-12-2007, 09:54 AM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | it's bad for me. i never feel good afters.
i don't care what other people do though.
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03-12-2007, 09:57 AM
| | BADMAN. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: my manor.
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Originally Posted by discolexy  it's bad for me. i never feel good afters.
i don't care what other people do though. | not even fuck buddies?
by the way i dont just mean people on here, I mean this in real life too.
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03-12-2007, 10:01 AM
| | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | i don't know, i've had a lot of casual sex in my life, actually. and i always end up feeling shit the next day and for weeks. because i guess it just feels like my body doesn't know how to have sex and then be alone. i know that sounds lame lol. it's not like i want the random boy i scored in his car outside a club to call me, tbh he was a probably a tool. but you know. it just feels wrong. and then i had the bad experiences and it made it even worse. and i have massive troubles trusting people, sexually. and trouble not being being disgusted by male sexuality. so i can't do it.
i think i would like to be able to hav a fuck buddy. but i don't know if i can ever divorce my emotions from sex again. also i've had the best sex when i was in love. i mean it doesn't even compare.
so i think i can just go without til i find a boy who loves me at the same tim that i love him?
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03-12-2007, 10:02 AM
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| | | are you going to see your ex when you are over here (he lives here right)?
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03-12-2007, 10:06 AM
| | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | too much information??
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03-12-2007, 10:57 AM
|  | the blood is thicker | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Germany
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| | | I dunno if i could have casual sex. but if someone is happy with it, i don't see what's wrong about it? |
03-12-2007, 11:01 AM
|  | Chairman~MouseyTongue | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chairman Meow
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| | | Because I believe Romance is dead.
Forget bringing sexy back.
I want to be seranaded at 4 in the morning, and not because he's drunk.
I wouldnt do it, if Id consider sleeping with someone, Id usually would want more than that. People who are into it, I find, are snotty and balk at people who have a "square" attitude towards that kind of thing, like you are uncool and old fashioned, which you probably are, but no need to make us feel shit about it. You fucking know you do it.
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03-12-2007, 11:20 AM
|  | heavens to murgatroyd | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hospice for the terminally ill
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| | | It's not that I think casual sex is 'bad' in a moral sense. I think it's bad because the sex itself is usually disappointing. I need to feel connected to someone in a way other than physically to have truly great sex. But more power to those who can fuck their brains out with casual partners. I won't pretend I'm not jealous. |
03-12-2007, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by BleedingHeart You fucking know you do it. | are you talking to me personally?
I don't judge people who only want one or a few partners or who save themselves or are celibate.
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03-12-2007, 11:27 AM
| | Chairman~MouseyTongue | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chairman Meow
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Originally Posted by gelflinggirl are you talking to me personally?
I don't judge people who only want one or a few partners or who save themselves or are celibate. | OH! lol, no, I skipped my last rantaholics annon you see. Its at no one in particular in here. |
03-12-2007, 11:54 AM
|  | had a dad is fkn GRAND! | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: bucks, uk.
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| | | i don't t hink it's bad.
i think it can be unnecessary risk, though |
03-12-2007, 11:55 AM
| | BADMAN. | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: my manor.
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Originally Posted by raeeka i don't t hink it's bad.
i think it can be unnecessary risk, though | ok i can see that but do you mean in terms of disease, unprotected sex or do you just mean the people risk factor? stranger danger?
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03-12-2007, 12:01 PM
| | had a dad is fkn GRAND! | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: bucks, uk.
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Originally Posted by gelflinggirl ok i can see that but do you mean in terms of disease, unprotected sex or do you just mean the people risk factor? stranger danger? | in terms of disease, i meant. obviously there is a danger in just randomly going home with someone too. i don't mind if other people want to have casual sex, but for me it's not worth the risk in these ways |
03-12-2007, 01:04 PM
|  | the figurehead | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: evidently chickentown
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| | | The concept of casual sex grosses my out a little bit. I'm not comfortable with the idea of someone sticking his thing into my thing if he's not been around for a while and if I am not 200% sure I really like him and I won't regret it. I don't mind when other people do it (although I don't particularly like thinking about the things my partner did before me) but I really hate when they brag about it, cause honestly, there's nothing to brag about.
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03-12-2007, 01:13 PM
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| | | i've been there and done it, and tbh, when i look back, i am a bit shocked by my own behavior.
i don't know what i was thinking when all of it was going on. now i would be totally grossed out by the thought of being that intimate with someone i barely knew, or didn't know at all.
and if we're being completely honest here, when i hear or see other people behaving that way, it kind of makes me ill just because of my own experiences.
but in all fairness, i am in no position to judge because like i said. i had my day. |
03-12-2007, 01:14 PM
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03-12-2007, 01:17 PM
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03-12-2007, 02:03 PM
| | was walking with a ghost | | Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Providence
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| | | I'm getting a little frustrated with the whole casual sex thing. |
03-12-2007, 03:45 PM
|  | i'm with the band | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: down by the river
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| | | i have found the one nights stands i've had with strangers i regret completely, but the casual sex with friends has been good or i've been hurt because i cant help feeling something for them.
there's nothing wrong or bad about it as long as both people are happy.
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