Yeah so my bf and I did it. It wasn't as bad as everyone says it's supposed to be. Just really really awkward so we laughed like the whole time. Because first we had trouble getting the condom on him. Then it took forever to ummm get it in. Like it was funny we kept trying to figure it out because it seems like it should be really really simple... But it's not at all.
And yeah I think more time was spent trying to get it in than actually having sex. And then a few minutes after we tried again and the same thing it took forever to figure out how to get it in. And then we kept thinking we heard his dad getting home so we had to like rush to get clothes back on.
It hurt for like a few seconds but like... I dunno it started to feel more good than painful. But like... I'm bleeding. And I was like embarassingly loud.
How long does the bleeding last? And does it normally take a lot of tries to get it in? And how long is it supposed to last?

I feel so ish. And I'm wicked tired and want to do nothing but sleep. I love him so much and it was kind of funny. It's nice to just sit there afterwards though.

all these things vary for everyone.
i didn't bleed at all my first time, my best friend bled for a few days.
for me, it took hours to get it in, for others it's no problem.
and how long it lasts DEFINITELY varies. i've had sex that lasted anywhere from 30 seconds to...well, a lot longer. it all depends.

i'm sure everything you experienced is normal.

and i'm glad you used protection. and laughed. laughing is sometimes very important when it comes to sex.

What about pointing and laughing? that happens to me all the time... Doh!

I was befuddled my 1st time - I was confused about the whole thing, as I'd never really thought about me having sex until... it was over. I bled, I felt odd, but I kept on.

But then again I was very into drugs at the time. But still, it's a new experience, so take it in for a moment.

it sounds to me like you had an entirely normal "first time". it gets better.