me and this girl i ahve been getting much closer and we were exceptionally close before xmas but now she seems to jsut not wanna know, our cells dont work since the network is down, so very lil contact anyway. but we made arrangements to meet and she keeps cancelling, she done it 4 times in the space of a week now and when we do get a chance to talk she doesn't seem to think the same about me.

Am i jsut being paranoid or should i be more wary? one of my close friends reckon she is walking all over me...but i dunno help?

OMG you are me in an alternate universe. I worry all the time that the guy I talk to hates me, or i said somethign offensive, or maybe he isn't attracted to me, or maybe he's using me, or maybe......... ANd in my head I always think - play harder-to-get, be more casual, relax and see if he doesn't come running when I'm the one not so available. I never carry this through, mind you, but I still think it's best.
Kick back and see if she comes to you - if she doesn't, you've got your answer - even if it sucks and makes ya sad

yes if i were you id stop asking to meet up with her, and dont text or call for a while. it sounds like shes messing you around, her loss. maybe u could just ask her whats wrong instead, online or something?

tis annoying, people suck.
*silently hopes he isn't alternate universe version, has enough problems with this reality*
i have attempted to play harder to get, but its not me, i am a real...i dunno...close person, i like to talk alot and be near people that i am close too. i just don't wanna feel rejected

and shrimpfist, i have asked, but she says everything is fine and i don't wanna stop asking in case she thinks i've decided i don't wanna see her!

i know how you feel. teetering on the edge of "should I save myself the hurt and walk away now, should I run this into the ground - if it's going to fail let it fail in a hail of bullets, and if I loosen up, it'll get away from me and it'll be all my fault.

You aren't a Cancer by chance are you? lol

I hope you aren't me either sweetie. I wouldn't wish this on anyone