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12-31-2006, 04:05 PM
|  | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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| | | as usual i need advice,
me and this girl i ahve been getting much closer and we were exceptionally close before xmas but now she seems to jsut not wanna know, our cells dont work since the network is down, so very lil contact anyway. but we made arrangements to meet and she keeps cancelling, she done it 4 times in the space of a week now and when we do get a chance to talk she doesn't seem to think the same about me.
Am i jsut being paranoid or should i be more wary? one of my close friends reckon she is walking all over me...but i dunno  help? |
12-31-2006, 04:08 PM
|  | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
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| | OMG you are me in an alternate universe. I worry all the time that the guy I talk to hates me, or i said somethign offensive, or maybe he isn't attracted to me, or maybe he's using me, or maybe......... ANd in my head I always think - play harder-to-get, be more casual, relax and see if he doesn't come running when I'm the one not so available. I never carry this through, mind you, but I still think it's best.
Kick back and see if she comes to you - if she doesn't, you've got your answer - even if it sucks and makes ya sad
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12-31-2006, 04:08 PM
|  | seahag | | Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: u.k
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| | | yes if i were you id stop asking to meet up with her, and dont text or call for a while. it sounds like shes messing you around, her loss. maybe u could just ask her whats wrong instead, online or something? |
12-31-2006, 04:14 PM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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Originally Posted by Thumperlyn OMG you are me in an alternate universe. I worry all the time that the guy I talk to hates me, or i said somethign offensive, or maybe he isn't attracted to me, or maybe he's using me, or maybe......... ANd in my head I always think - play harder-to-get, be more casual, relax and see if he doesn't come running when I'm the one not so available. I never carry this through, mind you, but I still think it's best.
Kick back and see if she comes to you - if she doesn't, you've got your answer - even if it sucks and makes ya sad | tis annoying, people suck.
*silently hopes he isn't alternate universe version, has enough problems with this reality*
i have attempted to play harder to get, but its not me, i am a real...i dunno...close person, i like to talk alot and be near people that i am close too. i just don't wanna feel rejected
and shrimpfist, i have asked, but she says everything is fine and i don't wanna stop asking in case she thinks i've decided i don't wanna see her!  |
12-31-2006, 04:18 PM
| | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
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| | i know how you feel. teetering on the edge of "should I save myself the hurt and walk away now, should I run this into the ground - if it's going to fail let it fail in a hail of bullets, and if I loosen up, it'll get away from me and it'll be all my fault.
You aren't a Cancer by chance are you? lol
I hope you aren't me either sweetie. I wouldn't wish this on anyone 
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12-31-2006, 04:22 PM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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Originally Posted by Thumperlyn i know how you feel. teetering on the edge of "should I save myself the hurt and walk away now, should I run this into the ground - if it's going to fail let it fail in a hail of bullets, and if I loosen up, it'll get away from me and it'll be all my fault.
You aren't a Cancer by chance are you? lol
I hope you aren't me either sweetie. I wouldn't wish this on anyone | oh shush :P nothing wrong with you, just everyone else.
No, i virgo.
and i have the exact same thoughts as you, so i know that feeling. |
12-31-2006, 05:20 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chicago/NYC
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| | | Just stop trying to contact her for a while, and if she doesn't make an effort to talk to you or hang out.... then you have your answer. If she is interested in you, she'll make an effort. |
12-31-2006, 09:18 PM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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| | | Sad Update
i drove 55 miles to meet her from the club she works in when she finsihed, i thought was a kinda sweet idea..... she said hello, gave me a kiss, said new year, then said she was very tired and would ring me when she got in......that was about an hour ago, i been home awhile and still no call.....
i a fool. 110 miles to brushed off. |
12-31-2006, 09:46 PM
| | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
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| | ohhhhh honey i'm so sorry. I'd say it's done sweetie. I know you probably wont and when she does call, you make more excuses for her in your head, but you do have the answer
btw if a guy that liked me did that for me, he'd be taken to the backroom :naughty:
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12-31-2006, 10:20 PM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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Originally Posted by Thumperlyn ohhhhh honey i'm so sorry. I'd say it's done sweetie. I know you probably wont and when she does call, you make more excuses for her in your head, but you do have the answer
btw if a guy that liked me did that for me, he'd be taken to the backroom :naughty: | meh, i would say so too.
see thats the kinda response i was hoping for!!! |
12-31-2006, 10:22 PM
|  | moz angeles | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: nyc
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Originally Posted by No_idea i drove 55 miles to meet her from the club she works in when she finsihed, i thought was a kinda sweet idea..... she said hello, gave me a kiss, said new year, then said she was very tired and would ring me when she got in......that was about an hour ago, i been home awhile and still no call.....
i a fool. 110 miles to brushed off. | I'm sorry. That's what it sounded like to me. I was just going to say that not calling or texting her wouldn't 'playing hard to get' it'd just be self-preservation. You can't chase someone forever...especially when faced with recurrent rejection.
I really want to hug you. |
12-31-2006, 10:27 PM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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| | | *needs hugs* lol |
12-31-2006, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by pablita
I really want to hug you. | me too 
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12-31-2006, 10:58 PM
| | ive got nothing to say | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by No_idea i drove 55 miles to meet her from the club she works in when she finsihed, i thought was a kinda sweet idea..... she said hello, gave me a kiss, said new year, then said she was very tired and would ring me when she got in......that was about an hour ago, i been home awhile and still no call.....
i a fool. 110 miles to brushed off. | are you a fucking stalker?
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except i hate you. |
01-01-2007, 10:39 AM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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Originally Posted by cantankerous are you a fucking stalker? | i actually thought was a sweet gesture, if you are to blind to see that then fuck you. Just cos you lack the imagination to see such a gesture as a good thing doesn't make it stalkerish. |
01-01-2007, 10:53 AM
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| | Maybe you are an involentary stalker, you stalk therefore you are  |
01-01-2007, 10:55 AM
| | flame reTARDant | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Caer-filthy
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| | | is it stalking if the person knows your coming? |
01-01-2007, 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by No_idea is it stalking if the person knows your coming? | Fair point, but if that person knows you are coming and then ensures that they are not around would that be a kind of inverted stalk? Either way it's weird |
01-01-2007, 11:14 AM
| | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
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| | | i thought it wa sweet :shrug:
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01-01-2007, 11:18 AM
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