Okay, my boyfriend told me that my friend asked him how far he'd gotten with me, and then asked whether he'd go all the way.
So I asked the friend what he answered and apparently he didn't give a real answer just that he didn't care.
And then my bf said the same thing to me that he doesn't care.

What is that supposed to mean if someone "doesn't care" if they have sex with you or not? Cos I'm figuring one way or another you kind of have to care at least a little bit.

Is he trying to do like the guy thing and try to pretend to be all cool and not caring but he actually does care but doesn't want to say anything? Or does it actually mean he doesn't care or what?

Like I don't think it's a question of whether he loves me or not. Just the sex question... and since it involves me I kind of want to know the answer. And "I don't care" doesn't help me at all.

Gah... why do guys have to be so like.. not specific and always trying to act cool. How am supposed to phrase the question so I get a real answer? It's just wicked confusing.

personally I think it's kind of creepy that your friend asked your bf something like that. I would look into that before I'd start thinking about other things.

maybe he felt it wasn't your friends business. why didn't your friend ask you instead if he/she wanted to know?

i think he probably felt embarrassed and awkward about being asked? and that maybe he thought it was an odd or rude thing for your friend to ask him about...

maybe he was trying to be macho and not reveal that you haven't done it yet but he's desperate to.

otherwise it might be a good sign. it might mean that he's not so bothered about that and can wait for it because there's other stuff keeping him in the relationship.

otherwise it might be a good sign. it might mean that he's not so bothered about that and can wait for it because there's other stuff keeping him in the relationship.[/QUOTE]


thats what i was going to say, look at it as a good thing. that hes values you for more than sex and that sex is not the be all and end all of your relationship.

like someone else said it is weird that your friend would ask such personal questions??

...or he doesn't find you sexually attractive. Just an opinion.