my boyfriend ( we just started the relationship, pretty much)...can be moody and selfish, like me. i guess the good part is it forces me to be more altruistic, but honestly, sometimes i dont want to be the fucking bigger person.
we started talking online when i was 13. we talked more online than we do face to face. i think the biggest problem is i dont have the net all the time and right now i dont have all my books and the only thing i have is my journals, to get out all the random bullshit he doesnt listen to..and theyre quickly filling up. we just have a weird relationship, when i first moved out here to him we didnt even have a place to stay. gotta go add more later

some people can be "too alike" to get along. But-heads and clash. Maybe two moody people is one 'moody' too many, there'll be more sulking than talking!

would you like a share a few journal entries with us?

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I actually kinda know what that's like - the bigger issue might be getting used to each other's real personalities. If you've spent that much of your relationship online and on phone, you still have a LOT of getting to know each other to do, and you might have a fantastic relationship when it's all communication, but you might have a real shitty one once you're looking for a real spark and living each others' routines.
I know that's not what you were asking about, but the "moodiness" might be a HUGE part of his real personality and they'll be other parts to him that you've never known before that could doom you.
I don't mean to bum ya out, but you already seem disenchanted.

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how long ohave you known him in person, face to face...

i find i cant chat to some of my real life friends on-line, but in real life we get on really well