guy.
ive been with my boyfriend 2 n a half years, lived together for the 2 of them.
now ive just started workin in the same place as him and have kinda fell hard for a guy in there, i resisted talkin with him for the first 2weeks(ive bn there a month) but ended up in a convo about music, with him showin me his ipod tunes.. i instantly felt a spark standin so close to him,fuckin pining to hold him or something.then the following week i was in work we spent most of the day chatting the next night was the xmas party, i got there late and seen him lookin at me from across the room.. later he came over,bout this time i was drunk and my guy was chattin with friends so we ended up goin to another table and chatted later i was sittin on his lap, huggin and touching him(not in a total sexual way)for the rest of the party.
my boyfriend somehow thought i was just bein friendly with this guy, but after the party and a week later im fuckin crazy about him cant stop thinkin bout him.
wtf im i gonna do?

Do you love your boyfriend? If you do then I would advise against all of this. It's just a fling and it wont be worth losing your boy if you really love him. Plus if this guy knows that you are dating someone else in the work place why is he being so flirty with you. You have to question this as well.

Fuck them both to see who is better in bed, and has a larger "peen" = correkt KR advice.

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i see him as bein nice to me and this thing being one sided, and yes i do love my boyfriend..thats the biggest problem.never has someone caught my attention like this while being with my guy.

so you love your bf and have been together almost 3 years. you have been at this workplace for a month, have a fling and want to know what to do. you wish to through away everything for something that is just brand new in your mind? i think you should ignore it because it just seems like a mild attraction that people sometimes get once they have been with someone a long time. how would you feel if your bf was posting this rather than you?

if he felt the way i do about this guy for someone else i would leave him in a second.
ive not had a fling.

i should have mentioned also that we have an open relationship.
sorry very tired and didnt even think.

Totally explore. It's what open relationships are all about. MAXIMUM FUCKING.

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PS the fact you're in an open relationship and you're still not sure if it's a good idea should probably tell you a lot...

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hey jus to let you guys know thanx for all the help, i wont be able to get to the net for a while, so ta 4 the posts theyve helped me clear my head.
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if its an open relationship, then what is your problem?

First of all, how can you be engaged to someone and have an open relationship? Isn't that contradictory? And secondly, if it's an open relationship then why are you making such a big deal about being attracted to someone else? And you also said "if he felt the way I do about someone else I'd leave him in a second." I thought it was an open relationship?

You sound very confused. You need to have a talk with your bf and decide what the fuck kind of relationship you want to have.... open or monogamous. I don't think you even know.

Break up with your boyfriend. If you're obviously so easily drawn away and confused, you're not ready to be engaged, and certainly not ready to be married.

Don't marry your fiancee if you're already acting like this after only 2 years.

threesome?

& why the hell are you getting married?