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12-20-2006, 11:34 PM
|  | So, what now? | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 504
| | | 'How many partners have you had?'
Do you tell your partner how many people you have been out with/shagged when they ask? |
12-20-2006, 11:40 PM
|  | C is for Cookie | | Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 4,401
| | | i give them some sort of idea about my experience level, but i don't get too specific. For example, I might say 'i have probably done less than 2 or 3 hundred ladies' |
12-20-2006, 11:42 PM
| | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 8,200
| | | i usually have to lie when this question comes up.
or else i just tell them flat out that its none of their business. |
12-21-2006, 12:09 AM
|  | feministsforlife.org | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: In My Tanooki Suit
Posts: 4,776
| | | I always tell and always before I've slept with them.
__________________ getting tired of the collective orgasm at the public declaration of the word "change" Dr. Nathanson |
12-21-2006, 12:33 AM
|  | free hugs | | Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: 'states
Posts: 1,094
| | | i would definitely want to know.
and yes i would tell. im not really embarrassed. |
12-21-2006, 06:57 AM
|  | myspace.com/Carly89 | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: From Lancashire.. living in leicester
Posts: 800
| | | i have told my partners, past and present, how many people i have slept with... when they ask. i dont feel details are apropriate but the figure kinda shows true colours. |
12-21-2006, 07:54 AM
|  | meowmeowmeowmeowmeowmeow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: melbs
Posts: 2,484
| | | in the past i've told the truth. but now... i dunno. i kind of feel like it's they don't need to know the actual number. |
12-21-2006, 08:12 AM
|  | Running Blind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Frozen Garden
Posts: 4,850
| | | ive only ever been with one guy and thats the guy im with. |
12-21-2006, 08:18 AM
| | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: manchester
Posts: 2,260
| | | too many |
12-21-2006, 09:24 AM
|  | brain problem situation | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 3,625
| | | i always hate that discussion.
my boy and i didn't have it until we'd been together probably six months. |
12-21-2006, 11:12 AM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 16
| | | why wouldnt you tell them if they asked? does it matter? not telling just gives the impression that you are ashamed about how many or how few you have done.. |
12-21-2006, 02:38 PM
|  | don't rape a goddess | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: catatonic planet
Posts: 679
| | | yes, i'm not ashamed of my past. if he can't deal with it, it's his problem not mine. |
12-21-2006, 02:42 PM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
Posts: 13,086
| | | my ex told me he had slept with 11 of his myspace friends. he had 60 or so friends at the time. anyways, he didn't meet them on myspace, you know. but still. i called him a whore. now it's 12 i guess
i always say 'less than ten' which is true but it's not specific
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you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking |
12-21-2006, 02:45 PM
|  | laughingandgaylikeaclown? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the big top
Posts: 6,116
| | | would it be weird if someone asked you just before you had sex?
iv only had sex with one person . . . |
12-21-2006, 02:47 PM
|  | Occam's chainsaw | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: goin down in a blaze of glory
Posts: 7,045
| | | I can't count that high.
j/k |
12-21-2006, 02:49 PM
| | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
Posts: 13,086
| | | i actually dont think i've ever asked anyone that. well not anyone i was 'with'
i just don't care. especially when he tells me i'm the best ever lol.
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12-21-2006, 05:55 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chicago/NYC
Posts: 1,564
| | | When I first start a relationship with someone, I always have that conversation with them, and I always tell them truthfully how many people I've been with. I want to know how many people they've been with. (without getting into details or anything though)
I think it does matter. It just helps you to know the person you're dating better and to understand their past. I have nothing to hide and I'm not ashamed of my sexual history. I have no reason to be. |
12-21-2006, 05:57 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
Posts: 7,902
| | | YES, and i tell the truth,
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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.
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12-21-2006, 08:27 PM
| | So, what now? | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 504
| | | Im such a slapper ha, I cant remember how many. Maybe because I have hardly cared for any of them.
I was asking because my mate is having a bit of a dilemma about an ex that wants to get back together, but he is jealous about the other men.
I have had an ex tell me all the people that he had slept with, I didnt appreciate it. i felt it was disrespectful and a slap in the face. Like as if he was saying, I have had this many, and you are just another.
I think that some things are sacred, if I dont want to tell how many, then thats my choice. He wasnt with me when I was with them, so why the fuck should he care? Im with him NOW. |
12-21-2006, 08:34 PM
| | So, what now? | | Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 504
| | | Arrgh! I have made two threads about my friends lovelife! I really need to get my own so I can ask advice on that ha! | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | 
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