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Old 12-12-2006, 04:00 PM
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please give advice for an anon. kr friend who cant be named

for some reasons. aha
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how would you go about txting someone basically saying, you dont have to try to make small talk with me, without sounding like a bitch?

we had sex and he sent the ' i dont want a relationship(not that you offered)' txt.
we then txt for a few more days because a problem OCCURED and we had too.
he works in a pub i go to alot and today he came down and my friend went to get a drink, he asked if it was for me then said so shes here? obv she said yes and he said i will go down and talk to her soon,
so he came down and stood infront of me and was like "hi, what have you been doing today? had work? was it good? are you here for long? are you going out anywhere tonight "

BLAHBLAHBLAH but it wasnt really like he wanted too? just 'small talk' and it made me feel uncomfortable and i want to kind of tell him in the best way that he shouldnt feel he has to? because it makes me feel sad, either want him to FANCY me and be sexy or leave me alone?!
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Old 12-12-2006, 04:04 PM
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small talk is the worst.
If you want them to go away...ignore them?
Oh shit...without being rude.

Smile and ignore them?
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that's what i would text
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Old 12-12-2006, 04:12 PM
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fuck off

that's what i would text
good advice i agreee

or ignore him, hes not worth the time or effort, (or phone credit)
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well i would txt them saying, dont feel like you have to make small talk with me because it feels abit weird.
BUT then that would seem like you didnt want to see them ever again? and if you go to the pub he works at alot then it will be weird?
hmmmmm perhaps you could just STICK IT OUT until things get back to normal?
BTW i totally think the bar man fancies the girl? why else would he be talking to her?
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or ignore him, hes not worth the time or effort, (or phone credit)
that would be my first choice.
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probably best to just tell him straight or just go along with it until he feels like he doesn't have to any more.
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probably best to just tell him straight or just go along with it until he feels like he doesn't have to any more.
yeah the going alont thing sounds like the best idea i rekon?
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Old 12-12-2006, 04:20 PM
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hmm i dont really know?
does she want to keep talking to him? does she only not want to beause it makes her feel uncomfortable? perhaps she just wants them both to get on with it? or be abit flirty?


who is it?!
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"I don´t want a relationship", you sleep with a guy they always think you want a relationship with them? Fuck that
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stop airing my business all over this place, goddamn it!

bookstore, i feel betrayed.
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she should tell him if he wants to make fucking stupid ass small talk with her, he should at least give her free fucking drinks.

i know one person here who works in a pub. does he post regurlarly? or does the he even post here? the guy working in the pub. i am sure the she isn't hard to figure out. there are a few of you gals that post here that seem to know each other.
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Old 12-13-2006, 04:49 AM
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stop airing my business all over this place, goddamn it!

bookstore, i feel betrayed.
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just popping in as im mentioned.
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