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12-12-2006, 04:00 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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| | | please give advice for an anon. kr friend who cant be named for some reasons. aha
okay, Quote:
how would you go about txting someone basically saying, you dont have to try to make small talk with me, without sounding like a bitch?
we had sex and he sent the ' i dont want a relationship(not that you offered)' txt.
we then txt for a few more days because a problem OCCURED and we had too.
he works in a pub i go to alot and today he came down and my friend went to get a drink, he asked if it was for me then said so shes here? obv she said yes and he said i will go down and talk to her soon,
so he came down and stood infront of me and was like "hi, what have you been doing today? had work? was it good? are you here for long? are you going out anywhere tonight "
BLAHBLAHBLAH but it wasnt really like he wanted too? just 'small talk' and it made me feel uncomfortable and i want to kind of tell him in the best way that he shouldnt feel he has to? because it makes me feel sad, either want him to FANCY me and be sexy or leave me alone?!
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12-12-2006, 04:04 PM
|  | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
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| | | small talk is the worst.
If you want them to go away...ignore them?
Oh shit...without being rude.
Smile and ignore them?
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12-12-2006, 04:08 PM
|  | ♪ | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hears sirens
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| | | fuck off
that's what i would text
__________________ [ o ]==# "A junkie is someone who uses their body to tell society that something is wrong.” - Stella Adler | 
12-12-2006, 04:12 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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Originally Posted by calalove fuck off
that's what i would text | good advice i agreee
or ignore him, hes not worth the time or effort, (or phone credit)
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12-12-2006, 04:15 PM
|  | laughingandgaylikeaclown? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the big top
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| | | well i would txt them saying, dont feel like you have to make small talk with me because it feels abit weird.
BUT then that would seem like you didnt want to see them ever again? and if you go to the pub he works at alot then it will be weird?
hmmmmm perhaps you could just STICK IT OUT until things get back to normal?
BTW i totally think the bar man fancies the girl? why else would he be talking to her? | 
12-12-2006, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by bookstore or ignore him, hes not worth the time or effort, (or phone credit) | that would be my first choice.
__________________ [ o ]==# "A junkie is someone who uses their body to tell society that something is wrong.” - Stella Adler | 
12-12-2006, 04:17 PM
|  | i'm with the band | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: down by the river
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| | | probably best to just tell him straight or just go along with it until he feels like he doesn't have to any more. | 
12-12-2006, 04:18 PM
|  | laughingandgaylikeaclown? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the big top
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Originally Posted by girls on top probably best to just tell him straight or just go along with it until he feels like he doesn't have to any more. | yeah the going alont thing sounds like the best idea i rekon? | 
12-12-2006, 04:20 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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12-12-2006, 04:23 PM
|  | laughingandgaylikeaclown? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the big top
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| | | hmm i dont really know?
does she want to keep talking to him? does she only not want to beause it makes her feel uncomfortable? perhaps she just wants them both to get on with it? or be abit flirty? who is it?! | 
12-12-2006, 04:35 PM
|  | << thnx CatctusRob | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: The Crips, Peyote ENGLAND
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| | | trace | 
12-12-2006, 04:38 PM
| | ive got nothing to say | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by chupacabra trace | nah.
its probably just bookstore.
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12-12-2006, 04:39 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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Originally Posted by cantankerous its probably just bookstore. | no
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12-12-2006, 04:41 PM
|  | << thnx CatctusRob | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: The Crips, Peyote ENGLAND
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12-12-2006, 05:47 PM
|  | duh! | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sao Paulo
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| | | Pretentiousness
"I don´t want a relationship", you sleep with a guy they always think you want a relationship with them? Fuck that
Just say "you´re right i didn´t offer a relationship" and then ignore him | 
12-12-2006, 09:57 PM
|  | stop stop stop | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Dagobah
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| | | stop airing my business all over this place, goddamn it!
bookstore, i feel betrayed. | 
12-13-2006, 03:52 AM
| | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: manchester
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| | | be careful | 
12-13-2006, 04:03 AM
|  | sugar britches | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: here. in my head
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| | | she should tell him if he wants to make fucking stupid ass small talk with her, he should at least give her free fucking drinks.
i know one person here who works in a pub. does he post regurlarly? or does the he even post here? the guy working in the pub. i am sure the she isn't hard to figure out. there are a few of you gals that post here that seem to know each other. | 
12-13-2006, 04:49 AM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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Originally Posted by W. Wanker stop airing my business all over this place, goddamn it!
bookstore, i feel betrayed. | 
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12-13-2006, 05:10 AM
|  | amerikas beast dance crew | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | just popping in as im mentioned.
as always honored to be mentioned along teh bookstore | |