Arcade__Fire, didn't your parents get a divorce or something, I remember from the old forum and there was a divorce forum you started (sp?).
That sucks about your parents, the only thing important to know is that your boyfriend doesn't think you have an eating disorder.
One thing though, if your boyfriend doesn't like you/come over to your house because of the whole 'seeing your mom' thing, then he is too immature and you deserve better