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Old 12-09-2006, 03:38 PM
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have you ever fancied someone you don't actually fancy???

I work ina gym and this guy that comes in became a good friend of mine because we also go to the same clubs (indie) and gigs and stuff.

When we were getting friendly he asked me out on a date and I turned him down, I just don't feel like that about him.

But then he got a girlfriend and I got jealous, he broke up with her and I felt happy, I get excited every time I get a text off him.

But i DON'T find hoim attarcative and couldn;t thin of anything worse than sleeping with him, but I dunno, I juist feel so attracted to him, but not sexualy, but I DO want to cuddel up to him and have him all to myself.

It's like I want him to be my boyfrlend, but not have sex with him.

does this make sense?
i need help
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Old 12-09-2006, 03:41 PM
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bah yeah, i sort of felt like that about my ex at first (aha as if im admitting that) but yeah, i ended up "fancying" him a LOT physically too, after a while
so maybe the thought of fucking him, might not be so gut wretching after a few weeks or, something
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Old 12-09-2006, 03:43 PM
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the thing is I know I couldnt have him if I wanted him
but, I can't imagine anythign sexual with him, t would feel like I'm doing it with my brother or soemthing WRONG
but I get jealous about him
i've never felt like this before
very strange that I can;t work out my own feelings
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Old 12-09-2006, 03:46 PM
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but, I can't imagine anythign sexual with him, t would feel like I'm doing it with my brother or soemthing WRONG
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Old 12-09-2006, 03:48 PM
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well I'm meeting him at a club in about 2 hours, so who knows.....

thinking about it, one of my exes used to be my best mate who I didnt fancy then one day it just *clicked* and i fell in love with him

I'm SO fickle
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Old 12-09-2006, 04:43 PM
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I think it might be a "conquest" type of thing. Sometimes you just want to know that you CAN get somebody. But once you do get them, you find that you're not even really into them.
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I think it might be a "conquest" type of thing. Sometimes you just want to know that you CAN get somebody. But once you do get them, you find that you're not even really into them.
yus, i get like that a lot.
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hehe thats what i was thinking
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AH- YES this happened to me.. i met a guy from overseas and he was only my height & kind of overweight and i just usually don't go for that but i hooked up with him anyway and it was hothot. he was really great looking i just thought i'd go for it anyway
i'm so fucke dup
in this way
i mean, i'm so fucked that i actually like it. but i don't think it's fucked, i think its real.. i dunno what it was we just had some mad chemistry
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Old 12-11-2006, 05:48 AM
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YES. this happened with me and one of my best mates earlier this year. He told me he liked me and I couldn't imagine anything weirder than sleeping with him. then he got a girlfriend and I got EXTREMELY jealous, and I was really happy when they broke up but I still had absolutely no desire to be with him

(we did end up sleeping together a few times eventually though, and now I look back on it and I can't imagine why I ever did that, because although I love him to pieces I don't like him in that way AT ALL. hmm)
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i'm dating a guy i would never have fancied otherwise. i wouldn't have turned around to watch him if i'd met him on the streets, i wouldn't have chatted him up if i'd met him in a bar and i wouldn't have gone out on a date if he'd asked me. he's just the type of guy i've never gone for.
we'd been friends for a while and i was in another relationship, but the more i got to know him the more i liked him. things quickly developed into something bigger. i started to miss him, to hope he'd send me a text message before going to bed, to wish he was with me.
and now we're a couple
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i'm dating a guy i would never have fancied otherwise. i wouldn't have turned around to watch him if i'd met him on the streets, i wouldn't have chatted him up if i'd met him in a bar and i wouldn't have gone out on a date if he'd asked me. he's just the type of guy i've never gone for.
we'd been friends for a while and i was in another relationship, but the more i got to know him the more i liked him. things quickly developed into something bigger. i started to miss him, to hope he'd send me a text message before going to bed, to wish he was with me.
and now we're a couple

Hahaha that is EXACTLY the same as my situation at the moment!
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I think somehow this comes from social standarts and expectation of what beauty and attractive is, and then you realize all those things you´ve been taught have nothing to do with what you really find attractive, so forget it, enjoy
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Old 12-12-2006, 03:10 PM
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i guess you dont know until you realy try it.. you know, like with food, it might look ugly, but it can taste realy good ^^

the question is, would you risk the friendship for this?
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yea, i've been attracted to someone i wouldn't touch with a bargepole before. and i don't mean that i'm shallow and only go for looks usually, his personality was extremely off-putting as well. there was just chemistry. luckily i got over it pretty quickly & realised what an idiot he is
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it might look ugly, but it can taste realy good ^^
HAhahahaahaaaaaa nice! & sometimes brussel sprouts just taste like brussel sprouts
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I work ina gym and this guy that comes in became a good friend of mine because we also go to the same clubs (indie) and gigs and stuff.

i need help
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Old 12-13-2006, 04:52 AM
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HAhahahaahaaaaaa nice! & sometimes brussel sprouts just taste like brussel sprouts
yeah, dont get me wrong tho, think about it, are things always what they seem to be in your life?
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Happened to me this year. I didnt fancy this guy at all, and after getting it on with him I fell for him completely. What a dork!
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yes. i am completely repulsed by my ex, but i can't go anywhere near him because i always somehow end up back "with" him again whenever i see him. i have no idea why this happens because he's gross. but i just can't restrain myself.

ewww.
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