I work ina gym and this guy that comes in became a good friend of mine because we also go to the same clubs (indie) and gigs and stuff.

When we were getting friendly he asked me out on a date and I turned him down, I just don't feel like that about him.

But then he got a girlfriend and I got jealous, he broke up with her and I felt happy, I get excited every time I get a text off him.

But i DON'T find hoim attarcative and couldn;t thin of anything worse than sleeping with him, but I dunno, I juist feel so attracted to him, but not sexualy, but I DO want to cuddel up to him and have him all to myself.

It's like I want him to be my boyfrlend, but not have sex with him.

does this make sense?
i need help

bah yeah, i sort of felt like that about my ex at first (aha as if im admitting that) but yeah, i ended up "fancying" him a LOT physically too, after a while
so maybe the thought of fucking him, might not be so gut wretching after a few weeks or, something

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

the thing is I know I couldnt have him if I wanted him
but, I can't imagine anythign sexual with him, t would feel like I'm doing it with my brother or soemthing WRONG
but I get jealous about him
i've never felt like this before
very strange that I can;t work out my own feelings
fuckign men

alcohol

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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again.

well I'm meeting him at a club in about 2 hours, so who knows.....

thinking about it, one of my exes used to be my best mate who I didnt fancy then one day it just *clicked* and i fell in love with him

I'm SO fickle

I think it might be a "conquest" type of thing. Sometimes you just want to know that you CAN get somebody. But once you do get them, you find that you're not even really into them.

yus, i get like that a lot.

hehe thats what i was thinking

AH- YES this happened to me.. i met a guy from overseas and he was only my height & kind of overweight and i just usually don't go for that but i hooked up with him anyway and it was hothot. he was really great looking i just thought i'd go for it anyway
i'm so fucke dup
in this way
i mean, i'm so fucked that i actually like it. but i don't think it's fucked, i think its real.. i dunno what it was we just had some mad chemistry

YES. this happened with me and one of my best mates earlier this year. He told me he liked me and I couldn't imagine anything weirder than sleeping with him. then he got a girlfriend and I got EXTREMELY jealous, and I was really happy when they broke up but I still had absolutely no desire to be with him

(we did end up sleeping together a few times eventually though, and now I look back on it and I can't imagine why I ever did that, because although I love him to pieces I don't like him in that way AT ALL. hmm)

i'm dating a guy i would never have fancied otherwise. i wouldn't have turned around to watch him if i'd met him on the streets, i wouldn't have chatted him up if i'd met him in a bar and i wouldn't have gone out on a date if he'd asked me. he's just the type of guy i've never gone for.
we'd been friends for a while and i was in another relationship, but the more i got to know him the more i liked him. things quickly developed into something bigger. i started to miss him, to hope he'd send me a text message before going to bed, to wish he was with me.
and now we're a couple

Hahaha that is EXACTLY the same as my situation at the moment!

I think somehow this comes from social standarts and expectation of what beauty and attractive is, and then you realize all those things you´ve been taught have nothing to do with what you really find attractive, so forget it, enjoy

i guess you dont know until you realy try it.. you know, like with food, it might look ugly, but it can taste realy good ^^

the question is, would you risk the friendship for this?

yea, i've been attracted to someone i wouldn't touch with a bargepole before. and i don't mean that i'm shallow and only go for looks usually, his personality was extremely off-putting as well. there was just chemistry. luckily i got over it pretty quickly & realised what an idiot he is

HAhahahaahaaaaaa nice! & sometimes brussel sprouts just taste like brussel sprouts

Stalker

yeah, dont get me wrong tho, think about it, are things always what they seem to be in your life?

Happened to me this year. I didnt fancy this guy at all, and after getting it on with him I fell for him completely. What a dork!

yes. i am completely repulsed by my ex, but i can't go anywhere near him because i always somehow end up back "with" him again whenever i see him. i have no idea why this happens because he's gross. but i just can't restrain myself.

ewww.

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