So. Theres this bitch who I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is sleeping with. We are on a break (til xmas, since sept)while I sort out my head but he promised to be faithful to me and swore blind he wasnt seeing her and she was just a friend and he didnt fancy her. I'm convinced they were having an affair before my ex convinced me it was best for me mentally (I have issues) if I broke up with him. They are at uni together at the other end of the country. She ignores me when I ask if shes seeing him, just signs off msn. Why would she do that if she had nothing to hide. We have a website together and she leaves comments everywhere about him, fucking twisting the knife. Other people have asked her if she's seeing him and she won't answer. I'm an abusive cunt and this gives me no reason to stop being so. Fuel for the fire. My 'ex' also does not reply to my emails. Nothing new there then. What do I do, I want the truth, how am I going to get it.

Well I am not sure what was going on while you were together, but as hard as it may be for you, what he does now that your apart doesn't really have anything to do with you.

Accept it.
He's over you.
He's moved on....
You better too.

they are definitely fucking.
and it's not cheating. a break's a break.

you're probably better off without them both.

It bloody well does have something to do with me when he promised to be faithful over this break while I sort myself out.

I think if YOU propose the break, he has the right to do as he pleases. If you wanted to be with him, you would. You apparently don't, so he's found someone who does?

a.

He tried to get me to dump him as I was unsure about us. He was also unsure about me as I have changed a lot in our relationship. for the worse. I didn't want to but he pretty much manipulated me into it. He also promised to be faithful. How can I get the truth?

He just isn't into you anymore, you just need to accept this. I mean all the red flags there.

What answers do you need? That they are fucking? I think you know the answer. You just want proof, which isn't gonna change anything.

Also I do agree, you do deserve answers, but this guy sounds like a weasel so I highly doubt you are gonna get any.

what a pussy

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wow. id cheat on you too.

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Ok, well if he tried to get you to dump him and wasn't sure about the relationship, and he's now seeing this other girl, then WAKE UP... he's not into you anymore. Accept that and move on. There's no point in trying to get the truth from them and digging deeper into it. You're just dragging this whole thing out. It's obvious that they're seeing eachother and this guy doesn't want to be with you anymore. So just drop it and forget about him.

You know, a girl like that probably gets her kicks from making you so upset. You should just forget about it, they are fucking, your ex is a wimp. Stop being abusive, please. Just relax. Take care of yourself.

Poor wee fing

because you are behaving like a nutbag?

You sound like you're better off without him. Just cut them both completely out of your life and move on. He's not worth it.

All cheaters should be shot in the fucking neck and thrown into shallow graves.

wise words

what is so wrong about being a nutbag?