So. Theres this bitch who I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is sleeping with. We are on a break (til xmas, since sept)while I sort out my head but he promised to be faithful to me and swore blind he wasnt seeing her and she was just a friend and he didnt fancy her. I'm convinced they were having an affair before my ex convinced me it was best for me mentally (I have issues) if I broke up with him. They are at uni together at the other end of the country. She ignores me when I ask if shes seeing him, just signs off msn. Why would she do that if she had nothing to hide. We have a website together and she leaves comments everywhere about him, fucking twisting the knife. Other people have asked her if she's seeing him and she won't answer. I'm an abusive cunt and this gives me no reason to stop being so. Fuel for the fire. My 'ex' also does not reply to my emails. Nothing new there then. What do I do, I want the truth, how am I going to get it.

Well I am not sure what was going on while you were together, but as hard as it may be for you, what he does now that your apart doesn't really have anything to do with you.

Accept it.
He's over you.
He's moved on....
You better too.

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they are definitely fucking.
and it's not cheating. a break's a break.

you're probably better off without them both.