i met this guy 2 years ago, and we liked each other. until today, we have been making out and kissing each other from time to time, and we also have become good friends. the point is he has a girlfriend and they have an open relationship when it comes to sex... so the only problem is i've always kinda wanted more than just friends with benefits... he seems to have a lot of issues with her gf, but i've waited long enough to realize they're not likely to break up. another thing i hate is that he's also always looking at other girls and talking about hot girls he met or something. I know this is fucking stupid and it's a no-hell-no situation... but i just cant help liking him and i keep telling myself i will only see him as a friend... but i really cant. i just like and hate him more everyday at the same time.

Also, i recently broke up with my boyfriend (we also had a semi open relationship) so i'm feeling very lonely and being with him and kissing makes me feel a little better than as miserable as i would feel i was completely alone.

i know there's not much left to say, but any advice other than the obvious "you're retarded he's and asshole"?

It's pretty simple really. He has a gf, so he's with her. You have the benefit of being allowed to fuck him due to the openness of their relationship. Until they finally split if that were to ever happen, that is all you are permitted. Sex without love. Accept it readily, or just stop. Or tell him how you feel and maybe he'll ditch her for you.

But I doubt that.

you only want him because you know you can't have him.

Since you like him and get jealous of him talking about other girls, I think if you fuck him, you'll only make yourself very, very miserable. I think sex either has to be with "love" or at least some sort of reciprocity, or it has to be completely random- like one night stands with people you don't really know. Otherwise I think its just difficult and painful.

When you combine

with

it would be accurate to label you as a slut.