I'm in the middle of an odd situation and I don't know how much more I can take. This guy and me have been friends for years now and 2 years ago we tried having a relationship other than friendship. It didn't last long, cause he wanted to know my every thought and basically smothered me. But we remind good friends. I still cared about him, but I couldn't deal knowing my every thought. He would get really angry when I didn't tell him what I was thinking.

Over the years everyone who knew the guy would come and tell me that he was still in love with me. And now he's half admitted it. But about 3 weeks ago he came to my house and asked if he could stay the night, just to get away from his house. Which he lives with his grandparents who raised him, plus his girlfriend (who I swear could be a stalker). Well he hasn't went back home and still living here. And besides the girlfriend theres another girl who he's just having "friendly sex" with, or so he tells me. The girlfriend is still living at his grandparents house. The guy has talked to me about having a relationship again. I keep telling him right now he has too much baggage. He seems to think I'm crazy when I tell him this.

Since he's been staying at my house he'll call both girls when no one is home. Then when I'm around it's I don't love either one and I want to be with you. Both girls have my phone number and he had the nerve to tell me to change my number so they won't be calling. He has also had the girl that he's having "friendly sex" with in my car and tried to lie to me about it. The part that gets me is he wants to be with me, but he's told me that the girlfriend will be gone in about a month. And the other girl "it's just friendly sex tab" with the attitude "deal with it". Plus he also told me that if he tried to break it off with her that she will kill him.

He doesn't want to really get with the other girls, but he doesn't want me talking to any other guys. Someone told me in front of him that another guy was interested in me, and I caught hell from my friend for that. Cause in his opinion that guy was stupid. He has even deleted people from my friends list online. I can't talk to people without him in my business. It's really starting to get on my nerves, but right now my life involves around him. I don't want to be in the middle of all the drama. Cause I know that he doesn't want to really get rid of the other two girls cause what if things go wrong between me and him. I don't know what to do. Cause I do care about him, but I don't think he really cares about me.

move on.

i second that.

im sorry but i dont see anything possitive about this guy :|

Reminds me of the Mark Wahlberg movie "Fear"... don't let it get crazy like THAT. Ditch the friend.

Get over him. He really sounds so dorky and wierd. I know the attention and dramatics are flattering but if you know what's good for you, you would get away.