Where do you draw the line with your husband when it comes to female friend?

Do you mind that after work, he stops to have a couple(s) of beers and talks to her for a few hours whilst you are alone with a child at home an hour away? She talks to him about problems she is having with her boyfriend. He has failed to get home in time for dinner because of this.

The female friend and her two kids stay a couple of nights at your house and your husband and the female friend stay up all night drinking and talking together on the porch while you are asleep on the couch.
You wake up still on the couch while your husband is in the bed. Would that make you feel bad?

The female friend calls a couple of times a week to talk about her boyfriend. She calls you too but mainly calls your husband.

while drunk, the female friend says that "if you werent married to him, I would marry him"...should you take that as a compliment or something else?

i think they're taking it way too far.
i'd be quite angry if i were in that situation.

it's perfectly fine for them to be friends, and even to talk about their problems and such over drinks, but when it compromises his time with you and his family, then that's where it goes from being ok to not ok.

why the fuck is she staying over at your house anyways?

it sounds like you need to talk to your husband and put your foot down.

thanx for the reply...i would like to know what other men have to say about this

they probably like each other and will fuck soon, if they haven't already.
you're the only thing keeping them apart and they're rpetending to themselvs that they're just friends.

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said thanks for the insults and compliments
you'll never forget my face no more

thanx for the bluntness LOL