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11-30-2006, 12:37 AM
| | unregistered user | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the greatest country on earth!
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| | | I have no skills
I just like in general suck. Like I mean like... at doing stuff. I think I'm bad at stuff girlfriends do.  Like any physical stuff... I think I'm just lame at it. Like I think I'm a bad kisser. My boyfriend never said anything to me about it. But like I was kissing his neck.. well I attempted to today... but then I just started laughing because I could tell it looked so retarded and then he started laughing.
Basically I need tips on... like everything because I'm one of the clumsiest people ever. And... don't make fun of me too much for posting this thread. |
11-30-2006, 01:27 AM
|  | Behold... | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: If I tell you, come over
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| | | Yeah, guys want girls who have got skills. |
11-30-2006, 03:45 AM
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| | | you will develop skills when you get older/more experienced |
11-30-2006, 05:56 AM
|  | e.c=vamplove | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: sydney
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Originally Posted by Zeke Yeah, guys want girls who have got skills. | ahahaha.
how old are you? if you're like, 14 or something no really expects you to have "skills". in fact, i'd be disturbed if you were skilled.
no one here can really give you tips. i dunno, stuff just happens. it either works or it doesn't. i'd have to say that it's at least partially dependant on who you're with. if you don't really have the chemistry then nothing will work right.
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11-30-2006, 05:59 AM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: hampshire,england.
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| | | about the kissing the neck thing.. i am sooo bad at that .I'd like to be better..
i'm only good at being clumsy.. thats my skill. |
11-30-2006, 08:59 AM
|  | brain problem situation | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | if you're not good at something, don't do it.
there are certain things you will find that come easy to you, so focus on those.
i'm not good at kissing the neck either, so i just don't really do it much. but i make up for it in other ways that i'm sure are much more enjoyable to him 
besides, you're only 17. skills will come with time and experience. i wouldn't worry too much about it. |
11-30-2006, 06:08 PM
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| | | You just learn that stuff from experience. No one will teach you. Don't worry about being bad at kissing or whatever..... a lot of people are bad at it when they're young and inexperienced. And if you act self-conscious about everything and send the message that you don't think you're good at anything, others will believe the same. You have to have confidence. |
11-30-2006, 11:34 PM
|  | Occam's chainsaw | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: goin down in a blaze of glory
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| | | what everyone else said.
but I would just like to add mmmm, kissing necks.
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11-30-2006, 11:44 PM
|  | say it ain't so | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: calgary, ab.
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| | | I'm sure your boyfriend doesn't really care too much if you're not "skilled" yet,
and mind you, nine times out of ten, they don't know the difference. aha
this reminds me of this one time, I was with a boy on his couch, we were just kissing, but I kept falling off his couch, onto the floor. Repeatedly. haha, it was so embarassing. I kept having to get up and be like "Oh! Sorry! Gee, this couch is awful thin!!" that's pretty awkward...
so yeah! haha I'm sure it could be worse!! and I think the other person usually doesn't care too much. Couch Boy just sort of laughed it off, and it was just me feeling embarassed about it in the end.
was sort of a situation everyone can relate to, anyways |
12-01-2006, 01:57 AM
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Originally Posted by herekitty but I would just like to add mmmm, kissing necks. | oh, hell yes. i would like to wholeheartedly agree.
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12-01-2006, 09:30 AM
|  | no lust in this coma | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Edinburgh
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| | | I don't know - I think you can be taught to kiss. I've never been told I'm bad, so I guess I'm ok, but this one boyfriend I had said I kissed really weirdly. I took that as a compliment because he was awful, all tongue and drooling down my chin. I had to teach him.
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12-01-2006, 09:31 AM
|  | my fingers get in the way | | Join Date: Aug 2006
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| | | Do you talk about KR all the time?
Guys hate that. So much. Unfortunately.
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12-01-2006, 09:34 AM
|  | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
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Originally Posted by beverly thrills Do you talk about KR all the time?
Guys hate that. So much. Unfortunately. | Personal experience? 
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12-01-2006, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted by *^_^* Personal experience? | They never like Glammy either.
EVER EVER UNLESS THEY'RE DRUG DEALERS AND THEN THEY'RE LYING.
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12-01-2006, 09:39 AM
| | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
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Originally Posted by beverly thrills They never like Glammy either.
EVER EVER UNLESS THEY'RE DRUG DEALERS AND THEN THEY'RE LYING. | I was quite lucky.
My ex was a lady and she liked her
But in answer to OrangeSapphire. How long hove you been with your boy?
I guess it will come with time. Make sure you're comfortable with him otherwise it's bound to be hard.
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12-01-2006, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted by beverly thrills Do you talk about KR all the time?
Guys hate that. So much. Unfortunately. | oops. |
12-01-2006, 09:40 AM
|  | pull me out of the lake | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: soho
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| | | the ex liked courtney. not as much as me. but he was a fan.
just like do what feels nice for you. don't try to do what you think you should be doing. if you feel retarded kissing his neck then don't.
oh god i love having my neck kissed
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12-01-2006, 09:41 AM
| | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
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Originally Posted by discolexy the ex liked courtney. not as much as me. but he was a fan.
just like do what feels nice for you. don't try to do what you think you should be doing. if you feel retarded kissing his neck then don't.
oh god i love having my neck kissed | OH GOD SAME.
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12-01-2006, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted by discolexy the ex liked courtney. not as much as me. but he was a fan.
just like do what feels nice for you. don't try to do what you think you should be doing. if you feel retarded kissing his neck then don't.
oh god i love having my neck kissed |
shutup your exes don't count because they're not me.
WHY DID YOU NEVER GIVE ME THE CHANCE TO LOVE YOU?
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12-01-2006, 09:42 AM
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