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11-29-2006, 03:52 PM
|  | Magna Cum Louder | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Beantown
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| | | Who should say I Love You first?
I think the girl should.
For the boy to say it first, he's pretty much throwing away any control he has over the relationship.
What say you all? |
11-29-2006, 04:10 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | i love you |
11-29-2006, 04:16 PM
|  | Chairman~MouseyTongue | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chairman Meow
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| | omg! that's so sexist, equal "I love you" opportunities for all.
It doesnt matter what sex you are, you say what you feel, only childish tards that dont feel the real thing say,"well, I shouldnt say it first, Im a tough stinky boy and boys dont say that stuff cause they're tough an' all"  |
11-29-2006, 04:19 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | Who ever is brave enough should say it first.  |
11-29-2006, 04:56 PM
|  | ShortOrderCookOnABender | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: reading
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Originally Posted by Rantipole I think the girl should.
For the boy to say it first, he's pretty much throwing away any control he has over the relationship.
What say you all? | Are you implying, therefore, that the girl has no control over the relationship in the first place, so she might as well say it first because she has nothing to lose? |
11-29-2006, 05:00 PM
|  | walking the cow | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: pollen lane
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| | i told miss scarlet i loved her and she didnt say it back, the cold bitch 
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no no never say maybe to smack bunny baby again. |
11-29-2006, 05:01 PM
|  | laughingandgaylikeaclown? | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the big top
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| | | OMG LIES?!
i said it lots |
11-29-2006, 05:36 PM
|  | Negative squire! | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Southampton
Posts: 2,458
| | In my last relationship I tried to say it first, but i suck & fucked up so he ended up saying it 
I don't think it's set who should say it first, whoever says it first, says it first. |
11-29-2006, 05:44 PM
|  | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
Posts: 7,013
| | | What about same-sex relationships?
__________________ Diving for pearls. I want a lolly. Summer lust, oceans still left to cross. |
11-29-2006, 05:46 PM
| | Negative squire! | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Southampton
Posts: 2,458
| | | what about same sex relationships?
It's obviously going to be a girl if it's a girly relationship, or a boy if it's not. silly. |
11-29-2006, 05:46 PM
| | She's like the wind | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Your face.
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| | | The point i'm trying to make (but not very well) is that it doesn't really matter....
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11-29-2006, 05:53 PM
|  | Registered Member | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Chicago/NYC
Posts: 1,564
| | | That's so dumb. It doesn't matter who says it first. Whoever has the guts to say it first and really feels it should say it. |
11-29-2006, 07:21 PM
|  | irreplaceable | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: eden
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Originally Posted by Rantipole I think the girl should.
For the boy to say it first, he's pretty much throwing away any control he has over the relationship.
What say you all? | whoever feels comfortable to say it first
relationships shouldn't be a power struggle
neither party should be in "control" of the other, or of the relationship
i wouldn't want to be in a relationship w. anyone who wasn't willing to continually work for an equal relationship
i don't feel comfortable being overpowered nor having power over someone else
its not right
if you want that, get a dog...
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should i choose a noble occupation
if i did i'd only show up late and sick
and they would stare at me with hatred
plus my only natural talent's wasted |
11-29-2006, 07:22 PM
|  | spliff ninjacat | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the doobie room
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| | | this is such a stupid question to ask.
seriously. |
11-29-2006, 07:23 PM
| | ive got nothing to say | | Join Date: Apr 2006
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| | | i love you. should be spontaneous and almost out of your control. BLURT
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except i hate you. |
11-29-2006, 07:25 PM
| | irreplaceable | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: eden
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Originally Posted by cantankerous i love you. should be spontaneous and almost out of your control. BLURT | yes
once you have to start thinking about it
something has gone wrong
it isn't a thought out decision thats planned
it just happens
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should i choose a noble occupation
if i did i'd only show up late and sick
and they would stare at me with hatred
plus my only natural talent's wasted |
11-29-2006, 07:25 PM
| | spliff ninjacat | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: the doobie room
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Originally Posted by cantankerous i love you. should be spontaneous and almost out of your control. BLURT | i 100% agree. |
11-29-2006, 07:31 PM
|  | Part-time narcoleptic | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Oxford and London, of the cold old UK
Posts: 2,617
| | | What a stupid thing to say. So what, if you say I love you, the other person is immediately going to abuse that to control you? What kind of warped relationships have you taken part in? In my mind, whoever feels it first says it first. Relationships don't tend to have both people following exactly the same schedule. |
11-29-2006, 08:54 PM
|  | e.c=vamplove | | Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: sydney
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Originally Posted by vegyrex Who ever is brave enough should say it first. | hell yes.
and what cantankerous said too.
this thread is so dumb.
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11-30-2006, 12:26 AM
|  | NaziBrookeHatesFreeSpeech | | Join Date: May 2006 Location: Minneapolis Mn
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| | | girls are dumb and should never say it first. So many dumb girls say i love you way to soon, and then they cry when their bf dumps them! However, if the guys says it too soon be wary, he might just be saying it to get into your thong.
My bf told me he loved me after a month and half of seeing (dating)eachother almost every day. It took me a month to say it back, which bruised his ego, and because of this he is now whipped like meringue. | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | |
