so yeah.
me and this guy have been hooking up for a good few months. we thought we would get into a relationship,so we did. i felt smotherd and told him i didnt want to be anymore but we still contiued seeing eachother.
We both work at the same place,altho i do days and he does night so we only see eachother 5 mins , if that at work. A few months ago he drank so much he woke up in his bed the next morning and couldnt move,then got rushed to hospital and said if he wasnt found within an hour he would have been dead. ( he has diabeties ). now,although his drinking has settled he is still drinking far to much.
Everyone at work say i am the person to help him stop drinking and am really good for him. Iv already helped him alittle by telling him what he needs to hear and by keeping him in on days he doesnt need to drink. Thing is im not actually 100% sure i want to be with him. some days i do,and then others i dont. i just dont want to be in a relationship. he is very ... clingy? i have told him he smothers me to much, he says hel lay off .. does for about a week then starts being his usual self.
i just dont know what to do. il feel bad if i stop seeing him all together as his drinking will go back to place.and if i stay there is no gurentee itl be for long. and plus i dont know how happy i will be. But he tells me he has all these feelings for me..
aah
im just so confused.

see that is why it is a good idea to get to know someone before you start a relationship with them.

yep

shit.

so what if people say you;re good for him? you obviously don't want to be in that relationship 100% and even though you care for him, he isn't your responsibility at the end of the day..
it would be worse to stay with him for those wrong reasons

but i mean i don't know, do his friends/family know about his hospital visit or anything?