ok, what would you say to the idea of preferring to sit on your own couch and he sits on his and there's actually a seperate couch for when you both feel like watching a movie and cuddling maybe?
Politics. Not that that even matters but I wouldn't want to share a toothbrush. I know it makes no sense if you don't mind having the guy's tongue (or more) in your mouth, but the bristles that scrub his plaque don't need to scrub mine.