Does anyone have a mom, dad, sibling, live-in relative with a severe physical disability?

How do you deal with it?

my boyfriend only has one leg.

it took me by suprise at first because he didn't tell me (apparently he thought I already knew), and him missing a leg never really crossed my mind. There's no set way to deal with something like that, you just do it because you love them. It's such a non-issue for me that I often forget about it and only when someone else brings it up do I remember that he has a disability.

i'm near dealing with it via murder

one of my close relatives is disabled due to a car accident. She has no use of her legs and limited use of her arms. Her parents rely on lots of patience and prayer. And they don't make a big deal out of the little everyday annoyances like most people do.

yes
my mother has severe rheumatoid arthritis and osteoporosis

it's never been much of an issue, i'm used to it i guess. she often needed my brother and i to help her dress etc