i was with this guy for almost 3 years. i broke up with him backs the last year and a half all he did was fight with me and give me a hard time about hanging out with my friends. i go to alot of shows and hed either bitch about me going, who i was going with, or hed go with us and get pissed of when he saw me having a good time and leave me at the venue. so its been over for a good 3 or 4 months now and hes still talking shit to my friend, who doesnt even live around here anymore, and writing a bunch of shit about me on the internet. im not the type to usually just sign on to my computer and post my personal buisiness for all the world to see, but ive gotten fed up with it and i want to know if anybody else has had the same problems. what did you do about it. howd you get the psycho to stop?

just ignore the fucker, thats how i eventually got my ex to stop bothering me.

ive tried. thats when he started bothering my friends. hes showing up at shows he knows ill go to, he drives through the town i live in. he lives 40 minutes away from me. and after reading the vast majority of things that have been written im a little scared to say the least. i want to get a restraining order or something but im not sure of how to go about it.

print out the internet writings. just in case.
you need to have valid reason/proof to get a restraining order.

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That's the whole trouble. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "Fuck you" right under your nose.” - J. D. Salinger

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yeah im in the process of printing it now. thanks for your help.