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Old 08-28-2006, 08:12 PM
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How can I make myself feel okay after being dumped?

Just over a week ago, my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. I'm still really in love with him, and I feel really sad and horrible. I'm tired of trying to do fun things that make me feel better, because I just end up feeling worse in the end because I wish he was with me, but I'm just sick of feeling sad.
I just don't know how to deal with this, any help?

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Old 08-28-2006, 08:15 PM
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Your situation is totally normal. We've all been there. It just takes time... I know that probably doesn't help much, but it's really the truth. Try to distract yourself from it, don't wallow too much, and it will really get better as time goes on.
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I know you're sick of being sad, but there's nothing wrong with being sad for awhile...a long while, a short while...it's normal. If you weren't sad, that would be abnormal!
Going out and trying to have fun really REALLY sucks when you feel this way. I've been there, and I'm sure pretty much all of this board has been there too. Personally, I like to rent some cheesy (but definitely non-romantic) movies and maybe invite a close friend over to watch them with you. And cry! Crying is a big release when you feel this way. Buy yourself some chocolate (if you like it...if not, then get yourself some kind of treat that'll perk you up). Just don't go out and get drunk. You'll feel like crap (because chances are, you aren't sleeping or eating as well as you would if you and him didn't break up) and you might end up doing a drunk-dial, which is never classy.
Another thing that's a release is to do something different to your hair. Maybe get a cut, or lighten it a little. A LOT of girls do that after they've been dumped, and it's a confidence-booster plus makes you look a little different so you feel a little renewed.
Feel better, babe. We've all been there, and you'll get through it at your own pace!
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Old 08-29-2006, 01:08 AM
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try and maintain a routine. it really is easier if you can be proud of your selfdiscipline. don't beat yourself up if you can't - you're in an altered state. all altered states have something to teach you.

in a few weeks' time, you'll have lost some weight, and your friends will be missing you. at that point, you get a haircut and go out looking amazing. just don't get too drunk. attention is SO the cure for heartbreak.
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attention is SO the cure for heartbreak.
yes! pretty yourself up go out have fun and show him what he is missing
and also show your self what you WERE missing
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