ok here goes..

i am in college and see this guy around cmpus every once in a while. i am very attracted to him. i think he is attracted to me too because when we make eye contact its pretty strong and i feel something there.

i'd really like to talk to him and get to know him. there is only 3 or so weeks left of school before summer and i'd like to talk to him before then.

any advice as to how i should go about this or what i should say? like i said im pretty sure he is gay.

thanks a lot!

maybe just try saying "hi" to him sometime? if you see him on the way to class it may or may not be a good idea since he might be in a hurry to his next class.

you could always just get to the point and slip him a note with your number.

next time you see him, smile at him, and if he smiles back, say "hi" and maybe introduce yourself.

but you always need to keep in mind that he might not be gay.

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how do you know he's gay?? I've had experiences with guys that I could swear are gay, if my life depended on it I would say they are gay, and then I try to seduce them and I make a fool out of myself because SHOCKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are not gay.


Like this guy who is always touching me and with weird eye contact and I just KNOW he likes me, and then I trick him to come with me in a cab after a concert, and he was totally drunk and I tried to get him home and he just left!!!!!!! I was very sbutle about it, he asked for a bathroom and I said sure, come inside and he was like "I'll just pee on your garden can I do that?" and I was like "but you can use the bathroom, come inside" and he said he'll just go in the garden and it dragged on, long story short, he didn't come inside. He fooled me. I don't know why he did that, he gave out all the signals that he liked me, and I'm shy about it, I don't pursue guys unless they've made some sort of move and he did and he chickened out.

I think he might be in the closet or he was just fucking with me. And I've never seen him since, he doesn't even go to university to hang out after his job like he used to, I guess he's scared of me.

yea, i understand that he may be totally straight, but theres just something about him. i just pick up on what i think are signs. like he hangs out with this one guy who is very gay and he had the blond highlights in high school (i know i am stereotyping here but it just seems obvious), and on his facebook profile it says single but it doesnt specify if he is interested in men, women, or both.