They are coming because you are putting out the IDGAF sex juice.
ways to make it an awesome party:
-make sure there is plenty to drink for all of your guests, a wide variety
-same for the nibbles..a variety and something for everyone
-good playlist/mix
-comfort...you want them to feel welcome and relaxed...throw pillows & throw blankets
-have some recent topics stored in your brain to engage conversation
-dont get all anal and start cleaning while people are still there..let it sit & enjoy your company and also don't let them "help you" clean up
-have fun
coctails are easy. the things that go first at my parties are vodka cran & vodka orange. followed by beam, crown & rum. you can find mixers & bitters at any grocery or liqour shop
here is the kinda spread of eats I put on for one of my parties:
NYE
4th of July: