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Old 10-09-2009, 09:43 AM
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a friend of mine w really shitty credit. i consider them practically family. they just had something come up, long story, etc and i trust them but i am still unsure.


see, i have been in the situation myself, needing a consigner. erik cosigned for me to get my car. well we all know im not with him anymore but im still making the payments and i got four years to go. but then again im not a shitty person.

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OK, lemme break it down

However long you've known this person and nomatter how close a relationship there may be, here's the absolutely ESSENTIAL question:

Can you realistically afford to see that money go bye-bye forever, and still be financilly on solid ground yourself?

Bc that's the bottom line, vanity: If said "nearly family" person should again have something "come up", then that will be your loan indebtedness forev and your personal credit-impact both long & short term

sigh

So, VERY importantly, Do Not Be Guilt-Tripped Into This Either, K?

Chyia, just sayin'

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Old 10-09-2009, 09:48 AM
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It's not whether or not you trust them to want to pay it off. Or to actually pay it.
But rather, are you sure they can definitely afford to for the entire term of the loan.
And are you prepared to sacrifice a friendship to money if they don't/can't pay?
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Old 10-09-2009, 10:17 AM
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The only person I have co-signed for is my daughter's student loan. and that's because she needs the education and i KNOW where to find her. Also, if she fucks it up, i can assume the $50 payments per month and she is my kid, so it's not like I'd stop loving her.

With a friend, never ever. Especially one whose track record (ie: credit) is bad. People who do not have good credit are that way for a reason, and if they are your friend, chances are, they will figure that you will "understand" if they cry hard enough when shit goes down.

In the alternative, if they just bail anyways, what happens? Oh yeah, you either assume the loan or go down yourself. If this friend is as flaky in life as they are with credit, run screaming away from the situation.
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i this is about that boyfriend person again.

i will judge. so harshly.
i'm dittoing this because i'm not convinced it's a friend.
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