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Madonna's adoption bid slammed

CANOE -- JAM! Music: Madonna's adoption bid slammed


Madonna's adoption bid slammed

By Celean Jacobson, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS


Madonna is seen in the village of Magwelo on the outskirts of Lilongwe, Malawi. (THE )

LILONGWE, Malawi - Madonna and her three children toured a day care centre built by her charity Monday as critics slammed the star's attempt to adopt a second child from this poor African nation and a judge delayed a ruling in the case until Friday.

Some child advocacy groups say the 50-year-old pop star's plans to adopt a young Malawian girl have been fast-tracked because of Madonna's money and status. One accused her of acting like a rich "bully."

After spending about an hour in court Monday, Madonna swapped her high heels and formal skirt for camouflage trousers and big black boots for an outing into the hot, lush Malawian countryside.

Holding the hand of three-year-old David, whose adoption from Malawi was finalized last year, the singer walked around the compound of the Mphandula child care centre, about 50 kilometres from the capital.
Madonna also was accompanied by her 12-year-old daughter Lourdes and eight-year-old son Rocco - who sported a mohawk haircut for his first visit to Malawi.

The centre, which provides primary schooling and other child care to about 4,000 children, boasts neatly cut lawn, swings and slides, and freshly painted classrooms.

This was the first time the star had seen the day care centre completed. On her last visit in 2007, construction had just started. Asked by reporters how she liked the progress made, Madonna gave a thumbs up.

In one room, Madonna tried her hand at basket-weaving under the watchful eye of a few local woman. David was given a cow-skin guitar as a gift, and he pretended to strum the strings.

Meanwhile, a coalition of non-governmental organizations held a press conference in the capital, Lilongwe, criticizing the pop star's latest adoption application.

"We feel Madonna is behaving like a bully," said Undule Mwakusungula, chairman of the Human Rights Consultative Committee. "She has the money and the status to use her profile to manipulate, to fast-track the process."

Madonna's spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg in New York did not immediately return a call seeking comment Monday.

The girl Madonna is hoping to adopt is about four years old, according to a Malawian welfare official and another person involved in the proceedings who both confirmed an adoption application was under way. They spoke on condition of anonymity because the case is considered sensitive.

Monday's court roll listed only the child's name - Chifundo James, which means "Mercy" in a local language. Her uncle, John Ngalande, has said she was turning four soon.

The girl's 18-year-old mother was unmarried and died soon after she was born, the uncle said. Her father is believed to be alive but has little contact with his daughter, he said.

The coalition's Mwakusungula told reporters that adoption should be the last resort and that children need to be taken care of by their own family.

"Mercy James is a child who has her extended close family members alive and we urge Madonna to assist the child from right here," a statement from the coalition said.

Mabvuto Bamusi, the coalition's national co-ordinator, said they were asking the court to uphold the country's laws and to "fully" assess Madonna's second adoption bid.

"Celebrities adopting children are merely taking advantages of weaknesses in our country," he said.

Malawian law is fuzzy on foreign adoptions. Regulations stipulate only that prospective parents undergo an 18-to 24-month assessment period in Malawi, a rule bent when Madonna was allowed to take David to London.

David's adoption was a trying process for the singer, who has said the storm of criticism hurt.

The boy's mother died when he was a month old. His father has said he believed he could not care for David alone, and that placing the boy in an orphanage was the best way to ensure his survival.

Earlier Monday, David spent 2 1/2 hours with his biological father at an exclusive lodge where the pop star is staying.

"I was very happy to see him," the father, Yohane Banda, told The Associated Press, adding that David did not recognize him. "He asked me who I was."

Standing outside the courthouse with a number of other curious onlookers, E. Ngulinga said he understood the criticism directed at the pop star but that it was hard to deny a child the kind of opportunities offered by Madonna.

"That baby is going to have the advantages of going to school and of becoming someone," he said. "Here it is very difficult."

Ngulinga said he hoped the girl and David would return when they were older to help Malawi, an impoverished country where 14 per cent of adults are infected with the virus that causes AIDS. The UN estimates that half of the one million Malawian children who have lost one or both parents have been orphaned by AIDS. Madonna first travelled to Malawi in 2006 while filming a documentary on the devastating poverty and AIDS crisis. Her Raising Malawi organization, founded in 2006, raises funds to provide food, shelter, education and health care for children. -

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ffs.

the kids has NO parents. she's 4 and in an orphanage.

the rich old cooter wants to adopt her...what's the big deal?

i don't see why everyone is up in arms. this kid will be well taken care of and will have the oppourtunity to live, where she is now the chances of survival aren't great.
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I think the big deal is how patronising it feels.
You can't carry on having celebrities adopting kids like pets.
If she wants to adopt really, I am absolutely sure there are lots of kids needings parents around her own town and country, the whole thing is, it has to be african because then it looks like i'm doing something about africa.

Like they said, her close relatives are alive and they're not trying to get rid of her, so if she wants to assist the girl she could do that with her $. If she wants to do something about these kids, she could afford doing more for more kids in that aerea.

There are so many kids around the world, in every country who are completely abandoned and violated etc.

It's just one of those celebrity ego weird shit, like a collection of thirld world children, she might go to Panama next to try and adopt Ramon.
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another interesting thing to watch is that yes obviously she is exercising her celebrity power and changing human lives according to that. There is a deep discussion there on how: I want that one, and I am having it.
When we're talking about a human being.

It's important to consider there are COUNTLESS thousands of people, couples who time after time try to do the same thing, and bureaucratic things stop them. They don't have the money or the power Madonna has, but they have all the means to raise a kid properly.

For most of them it is very difficult to adopt a kid, and being single and divorced a couple of times would be a big NO NO, because the adopting agencies would say "they are not stable enough".

So yeah, it's disturbing that because of who she is she can play God like this when there are so many people with equally good intetions who can't have children and have to go thru a crazy battle to try and adopt one.
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if the kid has relatives that are alive why is she in an orphanage?

if they can't take care of her why wouldn't you want her to have the chance at a good life?

i don't buy into this celebrity ego shit. i'm not a fan of madge but she wants to help and wants to offer this child a life. why does anyone else care?
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