Totally agree with the above.

I mean, who can blame someone for not wanting to be defined by who they like to sleep with?

yes.

i don't even see why this matters that much. i'm all for gay pride but people shouldn't be required to publicly announce their homosexuality anymore than people should be required to publicly announce their heterosexuality.

making this into an issue is what's forcing us backwards.

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Raise the dead on your turntable.

Ultimately, it's the individual's choice to come out and if they don't then so be it. That's the way it goes. You can inspire them to come out but if they don't want to then it affects them mostly, so lighten up.

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"Hey Ram, doesn't this cafeteria have a no-fags-allowed rule?"

i think we would progress better not by outing people who don't want their personal lives made public, but by segregating ourselves from worthless faggots like you, HighClassHo.

and for the record, I don't think Jodie Foster and Anderson Cooper deny they are gay. they just don't talk much about their personal lives. which is fine. they, like me, think there is more to them than just being gay. but, if they came out and started marching in the parades that would be the only quality that would be focused upon.

where is the human rights in taking someone's right and their partner's right to privacy away from them? i could see it if they were the type to be tabloid wet dreams, but they are not. they are very private people who are very good at what they do.

Yeah, Jodie Foster... she's obvious. The other day 'Sex, Lies, and Videotape' was on IFC and I realized James Spader is fucking gay. Godammit! He was hot in the fucking 80s. Well, so many gays are so fucking hot. That's why I think so many of us become so sexually confused...

Clap your hands if you're gay and you know it!

The confidence gay people defy the opposite sex with - and even the same sex - is ultimately attractive. Who doesn't want what they can't or shouldn't have?