Jamie Foxx on Angelina Jolie - Page 11

ztedster · #51 01-23-2007, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by tilki

Why would I even bother asking my boyfriend about it when what I said is a psychiatric common knowledge? Go read about it; there are a zillion books and studies made about how people do NOT leave happy marriages. And as if i would take my bf's, one man's word as if it is gospel truth, hah ha. That is why I said "talk to a shrink" because maybe you may listen to him because clearly what I say does not register to you. Men do not CHEAT in HAPPY marriages and a coworker does not steal a happily married man, no matter how attractive that coworker is ,so what you said is NONSENSICAL, because in a case like that there is no happy marriage to speak of but an illusion of a happy marriage (in this case that illusion seems to be held by fans of the ex-golden couple). Seriously, read about this because you really make me go in circles with you and it is getting tiresome like dealing with a 4 year old..... Plus AGAIN the idea that he "cheated" STILL remains to be an assumption which is why I started replying to your posts to begin with.....Jeez, I am not going to beat a very dead horse anymore, because it IS repeating the same things from the first 2 pages. My beef was with you stating your assumptions as FACTS when they are NOT. As for you thinking Angelina as an immoral homewrecker and Brad a pussychasing selfish adulterer, please be my guest and continue thinking that, seriously. Everyone is entitled to their opinion after all, but do NOT state your assumptions as FACTS because, like I said before, what YOU see as "blatantly obvious" IS still YOUR assumption based on what kind of people YOU think these people are...Is that too much for you to comprehend??? apparently, so I am not going to waste anymore energy on going around circles with you.

So in essence, if a man cheats, it's his girlfriend's or wife's fault for not making him happy enonugh. lol Good to know.

tilki · #52 01-23-2007, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by ztedster

So in essence, if a man cheats, it's his girlfriend's or wife's fault for not making him happy enonugh. lol Good to know.

I never said or implied that. But I am not surprised that that is what you got from my posts as we already established that you had comprehension problems.

ztedster · #53 01-23-2007, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by tilki

I never said or implied that. But I am not surprised that that is what you got from my posts as we already established that you had comprehension problems.

Actually with your whole a man doesn't cheat on a woman if he is in a happy marriage does imply it is the woman's fault and with your whole Jen's throwing a pity party nonsense, it just goes to show you that you are hinting at that.

Aside from all of that. I like both females. Angelina is a knockout and does good things. Jennifer is pretty and sensitive. Having said that, I'm not even going to blame Jen or claim she's throwing a pity party when for the longest time she has shown some class about this whole ordeal. She could have been a big bitch and told everyone at first that she knew Brad cheated but maybe she didn't feel like ruining his image? Meanwhile Brad goes off and talks about Jen not having his babies (blaming Jen), does that insensitive photo shoot afterwards of Angelina and him sitting around the table with kids and pretty much being insensitive towards Jen and rubbing it in her face.

I wouldn't have such a problem with this topic if people like you would quit putting the blame on Jen which you are by acting as though she's throwing a pity party when she's shown alot of self restraint.

So ladies remember, if your boyfriend or husband cheats on you, it's all your fault because you didn't make him happy. Remember that, especially you Tilki

tilki · #54 01-23-2007, 09:30 AM

"Meanwhile Brad goes off and talks about Jen not having his babies (blaming Jen)"...I already put you in your place with that one. He NEVER gave such a comment so do NOT fabricate quotes that never occured just like how you fabricated that whole Laura Dern marriage. He talked about wanting lots of kids way BEFORE Angelina was in the picture, but he NEVER ever made a comment after the divorce saying Jen did not give him babies. He did not say ONE thing bad about Jen or their divorce.

"Actually with your whole a man doesn't cheat on a woman if he is in a happy marriage does imply it is the woman's fault ". No, it does not imply that, but it seems you are unable to comprehend anything other than simplicity. What it implies is the marriage has many factors and layers and is way more complex than the one-dimensional portrait you make it out to be. If a man is not happy in a marrige, it does not automatically mean it is the woman's fault. I never faulted Jen for "not making his man happy". Sometimes marriages fail and there is no "fault" to speak of; people just grow apart, people evolve in different directions and find out that what they desire in life and what they want to make their priorities do not mesh with that of their partner's. And that was coming to them with or without Angelina in the picture.... Your approach is soooo one-dimensional that no wonder you keep on not understanding what I am saying here.

You are pretty thick, sorry to say. I am done explaining things to you which clearly go over your head.

ztedster · #55 01-23-2007, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by tilki

"Meanwhile Brad goes off and talks about Jen not having his babies (blaming Jen)"...I already put you in your place with that one. He NEVER gave such a comment so do NOT fabricate quotes that never occured just like how you fabricated that whole Laura Dern marriage. He talked about wanting lots of kids way BEFORE Angelina was in the picture, but he NEVER ever made a comment after the divorce saying Jen did not give him babies. He did not say ONE thing bad about Jen or their divorce.

"Actually with your whole a man doesn't cheat on a woman if he is in a happy marriage does imply it is the woman's fault ". No, it does not imply that, but it seems you are unable to comprehend anything other than simplicity. What it implies is the marriage has many factors and layers and is way more complex than the one-dimensional portrait you make it out to be. If a man is not happy in a marrige, it does not automatically mean it is the woman's fault. I never faulted Jen for "not making his man happy". Sometimes marriages fail and there is no "fault" to speak of; people just grow apart, people evolve in different directions and find out that what they desire in life and what they want to make their priorities do not mesh with that of their partner's. And that was coming to them with or without Angelina in the picture.... Your approach is soooo one-dimensional that no wonder you keep on not understanding what I am saying here.

You are pretty thick, sorry to say. I am done explaining things to you which clearly go over your head.

Sorry but your Jen's pity party comments show that you lack the empathy to see things from her point of view on top of that the way you try to excuse Brad's cheating with writing it off as though if he were in a happy marriage it wouldn't have happened implies it's Jen's problem.

So 2+2=4. I love how people like you have to have it S-P-E-L-L-E-D out for you and in bold writing rather than being able to read between the lines to get it. I bet it would be really easy to cheat on you and get away with it.