Cherry thanks for the links. I might have to pop into BCBG and try some stuff on. We don't have Nordstroms here sadly. I'm also really leaning towards having something made but I don't know exactly what and don't really know where to go to get it made.
Thanks! & Yup Louis and I are tying the knot! A pants suit would actually be really awesome too. The reception is in a backyard though so that's one of the reasons I'm leaning towards a shorter dress.
I think my bridesmaids are going to wear this dress. One of them already bought it and the other two are probably going to get it but it is pretty expensive so I might just have them get a different dress in the same color. http://www.bhldn.com/the%2Dshop%5Fdr...2Dlace%2Ddress