i never said you were a ****. what i said was that if you dress in low cut and tight clothing to a WORK/INDUSTRY function its NOT a good idea because people will immeditalty make ASSUMPTIONS that you are.
frankly ****s are much maligned and i beleive in dressing whatever you want to dress in BUT for WORK/INDUSTRY i would not dress like that and i highly suggest you don't. and **** if other people will dress like that at a work do, its seriously NOT a good idea.
in ANY work situation. no gos are dressing like you would dress in a nightclub or outside work.
i don't feel that the new zealand work enviroment would take anything too seriously. there is a girl at my job who is COMPLETELY inappropriate at work (she was wearing bedroom slippers today) and everyone thinks she's "a nice girl." we are talking clothes too small, tits hanging out, rips in skirts, and bare feet.
and for secret santa people got dildos and stuff and it was considered funny.